OP... I feel this!
We are about 2 months away from going back for the first time since September '19. We used to go yearly but skipped 2020 and 2021 for obvious reasons, and we are NERVOUS about what this experience will bring.
Disney for us in the past has ALWAYS been magical. That's why we continue to return. Yet we are extremely wary this time around, mainly because to us it feels like Disney is lacking compared to what it was. And I mean that in they are clearly having staffing issues, which has led to taking away and not re-opening many experiences, and we are having a hard time swallowing the idea of more $$$ for less. I am ALL FOR price increases and NEW things but there still has to be some sort of value there. I am having a hard time seeing it here.
We are the type of family that both plans but can easily adapt day of. We don't mind spending, but again, have to see value in it. We of course like experiencing things together as a family and can have a great time no matter where we are, but Disney IS magical because of the environment - the "Disney experience," attractions, attention to detail, restaurants, food, and most of all it's cast members. It's really what set it apart from "other" theme parks.
I don't think it's fair to go in expecting less and being surprised when you get more. And especially not when they are charging more for things while taking so much away. We should be treated to consistent experiences. Same goes for when people say it's what you make of it. Well yes, that's true for everything, but there is a bar Disney should be aiming for that feels like it's been lowered.
For us that bar is experience that always went above and beyond.
Some things that stood out from our 2019 trip...
1. We were standing right outside Jungle Cruise, debating if we had enough time to ride before our Skippers Canteen reservation, knowing our daughter (who was 2 at the time) would not have the will-power to make it much past dinner. We literally stood outside the ride staring the 60 minute wait time, wondering how accurate it was and if we could risk it/how late we could be for our reservation, all while she was begging to "see the elephants." A cast member suddenly interrupted us. Said Mickey had sent him a message and would like us to follow him "right this way." He took us to the Fast Pass line and said he hopes we enjoy and have a great dinner afterwards! We were so taken aback!
2. We did a lunch package that had the best parade viewing spot. All the characters walking came up to our daughter. It was a straight shot to the castle. It seems like they still have not brought a lot of this back... these special packages/experiences and such.
3. The character meetings. At Akershus Cinderella literally got down and started playing with our daughter's Little People WITH her. I can't picture that really happening today. Not with how rushed things have gotten, or how MANY character meet and greets OR meals don't exist.
I know they will bring it back... hopefully... but for many it's a big part of going. I also think because of these lack of "special" meals/character meet and greets people have less to do so they go on rides, which make for obvious longer lines.
4. Staying onsite, magical express, etc... it was just this super magical experience from the moment you stepped off the plane. While we are staying at a MK deluxe this time around, I can't see us continuing to stay onsite if we feel it doesn't live up to past experiences/expectations. It's COSTLY to stay onsite, and with the way they are TAKING AWAY more experiences without the prices reflecting that, offsite seems to be appealing to us more. If the Disney bubble isn't as magical to be in we could stay at nice hotels offsite and rent a car too. Honestly, it may be easier.
5. Dining. Gosh we LOVE Disney dining and food. From V&A to Pinocchio Haus. ALL. OF. IT. We love how the staff makes each meal an experience, especially at the signature restaurants. And the FOOD! I'm so nervous about what I've been reading when it comes to the food. This was always one of our favorite things! I'm a little bummed that everything has become more pre-fixe too. Not necessarily cost-wise but more because of the lack of options.
So yeah, I do worry for this trip. Not that we won't have a good time, because of course we will still have fun, but that the "Disney experience" won't be there.
P.S. I'm also kind of bitter because because we have a second daughter now since going pre-pandemic who ONLY wants to meet Pluto who is like ridiculously hard to find. Ugh. I miss the days they would just all be there right when you walked into MK.
P.P.S. And our first daughter who was 2 last trip is 5 now and wants to meet all the princesses... which CRT would have been like GOLDEN for no longer exists. I mean for us Disney is where you can go and meet ALL the characters and they are just taking so long to bring them all back!
P.P.P.S. I also REALLY hate the idea that I have to stay up until MIDNIGHT to get
Genie+ and then BE UP AT 7AM to make my selections. Like Disney is ALREADY exhausting, let's not make it worse.