I took my first cruise in 1980 at the height of the Love Boat's popularity. The cruise industry is a LOT different now.
First cruise was on a French ship, the MS Mermoz, Paquet Cruise line, 14 days, Caribbean, a small ship, 500 passengers. Great food, free wine with lunch and dinner, great disco, but other entertainment literally was limited to staff talent shows, including one where the Captain singing was the big act.
Next 2 cruises were on the NCL's SS Norway. Caribbean again. Big old ship, that had been extensively remodeled, again great food. Here though, you had a Broadway quality show, AND name entertainers. The comedian was Norm Crosby......the singer was Jack Jones (yes, the guy who sings the love boat theme).......second trip the singers were the Fifth Dimension, and comedy act was Shields and Yarnell, the married mimes who at the time had their own prime time show on ABC. While the entertainers performed just one day of the cruise, they were on board the entire trip. I played a pickup game of basketball with the Fifth Dimension, and chatted with Norm Crosby at the poolside bar. And they always had a sports "star" on board. Moses Malone one trip, and some NFL player, last name Nixon (sorry, I'm a baseball fan).
Next cruise was on a smaller ship,
RCCL's Nordic Prince. Caribbean itenerary. Again, great food, broadway shows, but no big stars.
We went for a bigger ship for the next cruise, RCCL's then brand new Soveriegn Of The Seas, it had only been operating for 3 months. Another Caribbean trip. Great food, great broadway type shows, no name entertainment, and a huge shopping mall.
After period of no cruises for 15 years, we decided, since we now had kids, to introduce them to cruising. This time Alaska, on HAL's Amsterdam. Great food, amazing big ship, a kids program that may kids ignored. Great broadway style show, but the best show of all was at 11 pm one night. An Indonesian cultural show put on by the cabin stewards and wait staff. We were entertained and educated by that show. And everyone was cheering on their waiter, bus boy, and cabin steward when they performed. This was a family vacation, we got to be our kids friends instead of mom and dad for a week.
Then over new years this year (12-27-03)
DCL's Magic. Caribbean. Great food, great shows, and something none of the other ships had, a personality. A kids program, but again my kids didn't use it. As with Alaska, this was a FAMILY vacation, and except for the one hour my wife and I snuck off to wine tasting, we were never apart from our kids. As with Alaska, our kids discovered mom and dad are pretty cool people when they aren't worried about homework, work.....etc. We also had something happen we had never experienced before, and upgrade to a more expensive cabin with a Veranda. (Was a Veranda nice, oh yes, is it worth the extra $1500 it would have cost me if I had booked it, no)
If you have read this far, here is the payoff, is Disney worth it?
Yes, at least once in your lifetime. If you can afford it more than once, yes again. But if money is an issue, go on a cheaper line. Cruise vacations are the BEST vacations. I think Disney is the BEST cruise vacation, but it's better to go on a cheaper cruise than to not go at all.