It only has to be a 'wall to wall' situation if you set it up that way.
I too have been guilty of overscheduling my vacation.. but I stopped that after just 1 trip.
I know that I'll get back so I take in what I can take in and let the rest of the craziness fall by the wayside.
I blame the internet for the ever burning desire to cram every minute of every hour of every trip with 'something'.
"Oh you simply HAVE to go to Beaches and Cream! It's to DIE for.."
"Make an ADR for EVERY meal.. its the ONLY way to go.."
"If you run from point A to point B at breakneck speed starting at exactly 9:12am , you can score two fastpasses back to back"
"If you don't stay at a Deluxe Hotel you simply haven't been to Disney."
"You should only stay concierge level."
"It's pointless unless you stay in a Grand Villa."
"The pool is closed at my resort. I simply can't stay there."
"What view does my room have. If I can only see parking lot, that's not acceptable."
"Did you get a 60% off PIN Code and towel animals? We got both."
ETC ETC. It's all driven by a burning desire to make sure one gets MORE than anyone else for their Disney buck. And while the DISBOARDS have done a great service in making more Disney info available, they have in part done a dis-service.. because if you got a towel animal and I didn't... well, that's just not good customer service.
And parents put tremendous pressures on themselves when going to Disney..
"My son has to be chosen for the Star Wars Be a Jedi thingy, or the trip is ruined."
"If my daughter doesn't get to meet character A, B, C and right on thru Y.. then the trip has been a total failure."
"We tried to look under the mat for the key but the line was moving too fast and this other kid got it. I hate that kid."
"You got DreamFastpasses? We didn't win ANYTHING. That's not fair."
I call "Horse-hockey".
All of this is asking for a famous "Disney Meltdown" or general malaise about the amount of money spent and the entertainment value received therefore.
And to think just two years ago I had a binder for each trip with EMH Hours morning/evening, park hours, ride closures, parade and fireworks times and on and on and on..
If it was my one and only trip - EVER - then yes, I would be more manic about it... would stay for 2 or 3 weeks like the UK folks do and would make it a real event.
Disney long ago surpassed the point where you can reasonably do 'most everything' in even a 14 or 21 day trip.. never mind a 7 day or less trip.
Therefore, the only realistic and sane approach is "We'll see what we see, we'll do what we do and hopefully ... one day .. we'll get to return and see and do more."
I'm a big fan of helping the kids prioritize what's important to them.. knocking those things off first for a feeling of accomplishment and satisfaction and then just seeing where the rest of the trip takes you.
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As for the secrecy for this 'billion dollar plan' - how secret can it be? This is the fifth article I have read about it. Yes they are all short on facts, but, if I crazy Canadian knows they have some RFID plans and a rough sketch of what they are... odds are the folks at NBC Universal etc know the same... or far more likely .... way more.