TAK
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Jan 21, 2014
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I agree 100% that if the cost of a Disney vacation no longer seems worth it to someone, if it feels like a waste, then you have every right and in fact probably should take your money elsewhere. Or stay and feel dissatisfied until you hit that tipping point. Either way, I don't blame you. I can understand the frustration. Something you've done for awhile now and enjoyed is no longer as enjoyable, and costs a lot. Deciding that the extravagance of this expensive vacation is no longer worth emptying your pockets is a valid decision, but a bummer.
But I can't get onboard with the notion that Disney is supposed to be for "average Joes", whatever that's defined as. It's always been a phenomenally costly vacation. You can economize, of course, and a lot of you on these Boards come up with some great ways to do that. But when you're barely living paycheck to paycheck or you're struggling to pay the bills as it is, Disney is as far out of reach as the moon. I know because I grew up that way, poor as all get out, and as a Disney fanatic it was hard to see my wealthier, more financially secure friends go when I couldn't. Now, my situation has changed, and I can afford to go -- for the first time last year, at the age of 43.
In the movie "Reality Bites", Winona Ryder's character talks about how her friend Troy seems to feel "like the establishment owes him a Snickers". My husband and I talk about that quote a lot to try to keep ourselves grounded. It stinks when something non-essential is out of reach, but it stinks, and that's it. You can be mad it costs a lot, and you can wish it would cost less, you can have the opinion that it's worth less than they're charging, and you can decide it's not worth it to you to pay for it -- but you can't be mad that it isn't cheaper because you're somehow entitled to it. Just my $0.02.
But I can't get onboard with the notion that Disney is supposed to be for "average Joes", whatever that's defined as. It's always been a phenomenally costly vacation. You can economize, of course, and a lot of you on these Boards come up with some great ways to do that. But when you're barely living paycheck to paycheck or you're struggling to pay the bills as it is, Disney is as far out of reach as the moon. I know because I grew up that way, poor as all get out, and as a Disney fanatic it was hard to see my wealthier, more financially secure friends go when I couldn't. Now, my situation has changed, and I can afford to go -- for the first time last year, at the age of 43.
In the movie "Reality Bites", Winona Ryder's character talks about how her friend Troy seems to feel "like the establishment owes him a Snickers". My husband and I talk about that quote a lot to try to keep ourselves grounded. It stinks when something non-essential is out of reach, but it stinks, and that's it. You can be mad it costs a lot, and you can wish it would cost less, you can have the opinion that it's worth less than they're charging, and you can decide it's not worth it to you to pay for it -- but you can't be mad that it isn't cheaper because you're somehow entitled to it. Just my $0.02.