I have a VERY IMPORTANT question for everyone on this thread participating in our FE Exchange.
My husband's cousin and her 5 yr old son are cruising with us. She's recently divorced so we invited her to come along and share a room with my mother in law, knowing she'd never take her son on a cruise on her own. This will be her very first
Disney cruise - She does not participate in DIS boards and has no clue about the FE 'tradition'. We are participating- which means that my kids will be blurting all about it (it excites them to find a special surprise in their FE). I don't want him to feel left out - but I also dont want to tell her because she's someone who will feel obligated to particpate and then totally stress out about it (seriously- she's a very anxious person).

So my plan is to make her a FE for her door and surprise him. I'm going to bring extra goodies for him, but, I was wondering if a few others wouldn't mind dropping off a surprise to him at some point during our exchange even though they aren't exchanging.
Please let me know your thoughts- for me it's all about making this magical for the kids

and I certainly don't want this little boy to feel 'slighted'.
Also- who's ever maintaining our list- can you please note that one of my children is highly allergic to nuts (peanuts and tree nuts) so if candy is being given out, we're more into 'lolly pops, skittles, and starburst" than anything that could contain nuts (mostly chocolate). Plain cholate coins are fine too.
I also need to make sure my correct room number is on the list because at some point we changed room cats and I'm not sure if that was before or after the FE list was initiated!!!