Disney Depresses Me.

jjplus3

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My 3 kids, husband, parents and sister and I went on the usual, "once in a lifetime" trip to Disney last December and I still haven't gotten over it. Friends who just got back from Florida were telling us how wonderful their trip was, and it was all I could do to not cry (as I am now). I haven't been reading any of the Disney linked emails that still get sent to me - it is just too depressing! My girls (and I) got sick and every day we got a late start in hopes that they'd feel better and be able to do more, but every day they got sicker and sicker. We had some kind of bronchitis/sinusitis/flu bug that was horrible. My 3 year old usually has respiratory problems when she gets sick but even my 5 year old, who has never wheezed, needed to use my youngest's medicine and nebulizer, which thank goodness we brought.

We have good memories mixed with the bad, of course. Mickey's Christmas party was pretty cool - good thing they let us change our ticket date since the kids were sick - I really loved the parade and fireworks. And thank goodness my husband was able to take my 7 year old son around on some of the rides - it was really the only chance he got to really enjoy it full throttle. It was really too bad that my 5 year old daughter was so sick that she slept in a stroller through the entire parade and fireworks (no kidding - I kept shaking her to try to wake her up in hopes that she could enjoy it, and to make sure she was all right!). The kids got lots of autographs and really treasure their autograph books.

We ate well, thanks to the dining plan (though we missed out on the Christmas Carol show we paid for, after the elder daughter threw up in the ladies room at Alfredo's - that was a bad night. It helped that we were able to borrow a wheelchair to help us get home - my son did something to his ankle and we couldn't carry all 3 kids at the same time!). I could tell that our last dinner at the flying fish cafe was very good - too bad my tastebuds chose that night to completely shut down (everyone else got extra from me!). We liked Spoodles and the Flying Fish, especially. By the way, you can get a reservation a little easier by calling the restaurant directly - that's how we got in, when the general reservations line said it was booked.

Our rooms really helped us survive the trip - the grandparents paid for a 2 br suite at the Boardwalk Villas, which was really nice and I'd highly recommend. We spent a lot of time there, so it was good to have comfortable rooms with a kitchen. IT was also great to be so close to so many restaurants - we had lots of options when we didn't want to go far but had to eat. I'd stay there again, if we could afford it.

Here's a tip on what NOT to do if you or your kids are sick: DON'T take a taxi to the hospital instead of an ambulance - it is not worth it. At midnight the last night there, my youngest did what she usually does when she gets really sick - gets pnemonia. We've gone through this before, and figured we could take a cab to the local hospital. What we didn't count on was that the cabbie didn't know where the local hospital was. For your information, there is a clinic nearby that is not open all night, as he thought, and the closest full hospital after that is not downtown Orlando, where he took us. It is actually about 10 minutes away, in Celebration. But he didn't know how to get there. So 25 minutes and $45 dollars later (each way) we got to the downtown hospital that checked her out. Unfortunately, after we got there they had to shut down the emergency room because there had been a shooting and the victim's friends were congregating in the waiting room. It was a dirty, city hospital, and I was happy to get back to the hotel at 7am the next morning - I had just enough time to pack and leave!

We used the visiting doctor's service, which helped - we were able to get prescriptions delivered to the hotel very quickly. Unfortunately, they made us pay up front - about $500 for all of us - and our insurance company is still working things out. We should get a lot of that back. I hope.

I guess the thing that upsets me the most is not the stuff that happened, but what didn't happen. We planned a special birthday party for my daughter, who turned 3 while we were there, at the Crystal Palace. She loved Pooh at the time and we ordered a cake and everything. You can guess what happened - we cancelled, rescheduled, cancelled again, and never got to see Pooh. She's not into him as much anymore - so much for that once in a lifetime opportunity. For some reason I never got her a birthday button. She never got any special treatment or Disney moments. We made it to a Princess lunch (a highlight for the girls) after pumping my youngest full of tylenol (she was on a downward spiral and I was not going to let her miss that event!) and after asking the fairy godmother for a special wish for them to feel better she gave them some Mickey glitter - they still have it. My 3 year old still talks a lot about the Pooh ride, too - one of 3 rides she went on. How ridiculous is that - a week at Disney and only 3 rides?!!! She liked it, by the way, but didn't like the thunder.

After hearing about the special birthday stuff my friends daughter had last week, the old painful memories came up and I decided to write. I don't know if we'll ever go back - money is too tight - and even if we do it won't be the same not having the Grandparents and my sister there. If I could go back, I'd love to do the same exact thing - same dates ( first week in December) same restaurants, same parks, same hotel - just no sick kids. Sorry to be a complainer, but I had to get it off my chest. And we still had a good time just being there, and being with family. We were very fortunate to be able to go and have such a nice trip. I just hope, if you have a trip that doesn't go as planned, that you can take a few of my tips and make it a little more manageable.
 
I'm sorry to hear about your trip being so rough. I have 3 kids and I know what that can be like. My dad died right after our last trip to Disney and when I think of Disney at times I get real sad. But I look to my kids to cheer me up and enjoy what they thought was a good time there. I wish you could have experienced a little more of the magic of Disney and I wish you the best if you ever get to go back. :)
 
Ugh what a complete bummer :sad2:
So sorry to hear all of this. Maybe next time choose a time of year when the kids are less prone to illness? I know with three it is tought not to have "something" going around"

I hope you can schedule a trip real soon! Good luck here is some pixiedust:
 
Wow :guilty: That was a bad trip. I'm sorry it turned out that way. Perhaps you can plan another trip, a totally different trip. Instead of trying to recreate your other one--a different time of year, different resort. Leave the past in your behind, as Pumbaa would say. :grouphug:
 

I have 4 kids that have allergy asthma. I know how fast the asthma can turn into other complications. Taking kids out of their home environment always seemed to trigger everything. It actually got to be a running joke, the local ER always got a picture in our vacation book. Seriously, I'm sorry, your daughter got sick, it is very scary being in a different area, without your local pediatrician. My kids actually all go to the University of Wisconsin Hospital and Clinics Allergy Specialist. and they are on call 24 hours a day and I can call them anytime for meds, and if we need to see a Dr., they tell us where to go if we are on vacation.
 
Yeah, we like to visit emergency rooms around the country, too...in fact the last time we went someplace we ended up staying at a hotel within sight of the local hospital - I can't tell you how relieved I was! Luckily we didn't need it that time.
 
I like your idea of trying to go again and doing it totally differently, and not trying to recapture the past. We couldn't afford to do the luxury trip again, anyway. Maybe we'll try driving down sometime, if we get the courage to do so (I think it is about 16-18 hours from here; we do 10 hour trips all the time, but 2 days in a row of doing that seems insane!).
 
I can relate, because on our last trip in March 06, we were all sick at different times! (going during flu season is tough)
Our immune systems were all pumped up before we left for our trip, we took vitamins each day, took Airbourne and used hand sanitizer at the parks and we STILL got sick because we were exposed to different kinds of germs that we must not have been used to.

DD went to the CentraCare Urgent Care clinic and had to get an antibiotic one day.
Hubby got a horible puke virus one day.
I got a horible puke virus the next day
and on our last full park day I got pink eye! (So I had to to go back to the Urgent Care clinic)

We still managed to make the most out of the time we were there, but recovering from the sickness really impacted our touring.

When the free dining deal was announced, we booked because it was a super deal for us (and we have NEVER stayed onsite)
We are hoping for a more healthy trip this time.

Don't completely rule out annother vacation, they announce deals all the time and if you can downsize on accomodations, you may be able to work it into your budget.
Otherwise, just feel blessed that you did have the opportunity to go on a family vacation together. I am sure you still have a few happy memories from your vacation.
Take care of yourself and your family!!!
 
jjplus3 said:
I like your idea of trying to go again and doing it totally differently, and not trying to recapture the past. We couldn't afford to do the luxury trip again, anyway. Maybe we'll try driving down sometime, if we get the courage to do so (I think it is about 16-18 hours from here; we do 10 hour trips all the time, but 2 days in a row of doing that seems insane!).
The airplane is a great place to catch something. Maybe driving will help. I have asthma and about 50% of the flights that I take I catch something. I find the uping my meds the day before seems to help me.
 
jjplus3: Aww, I felt so bad for you and the kids after reading your post. :grouphug: to you! I bet there will be another time for you to go again. Remember, if there's a will, there's a way...and it sounds like you have the will.

We are DVC owners (wish I had some extra points to throw your way :guilty: ) and had our first stay at BWV last week. You're right--it's awesome. I've heard of people renting points from owners that sometimes turns out to be less expensive than regular hotel rooms.

It sounds like you tried to make lemonade out of lemons. I like the idea of doing a totally different trip as well. As much as I like to get away in the wintertime, the chances of being sick are always higher then.

Hang in there. I'll bet you get WDW again. Here's some... pixiedust: to help. :)
 
Thanks - your sympathy and empathy helps me feel a little better. Yuck to the throw up bugs - thank goodness we didn't have too much of that!

I'd like to try to go again, but I'm afraid our 20 year old furnace and ac may go out pretty soon - that pretty much will take care of our disposable income for a little while! Maybe we can try driving down in the off season. Maybe next year.
 
How awful for you! We were there the same week as you, and I also came back from the trip sick. In fact, I ended up being diagnosed with pneumonia about two weeks after Christmas--I had been sick since Disney. Maybe it's that time of year, the kinds of mold that are out or something? I have respitory issues too, so I understand that it doesn't take much to set things off in a bad direction.

I do hope you get to go back someday. :sad:
 
My Dad ended up getting the same thing we had (after he got home, luckily) - he was sick for almost 3 months and had pnemonia too. Sounds like we all had the same bug!
 
:wave: ..i 've been thinking on how the best way to offer encouragment...
.....i really believe a disney trip does not have to be "prefect" for it to have
special memories....i think..a disney vacation..is all about "family time"..&
making unforgetable experiences from every opportunity .. including coping
with the disappointments..* i believe these 2 components are always
present...based on our experiences...& oh my, can i tell you some doseys..

* however, over time..i realized some of our "diasters" have given us some
of our dearest memories...i think your experience will help set up some
really special times for the next trip...cos i "see" you still "hungery" for
going back..good for you & your family!

..sometimes "diasters" can work in helping us in unexpected ways..my
uncle during WW II, had he top of his head blow off [metal plate]..
us kids used to stick magnets on top..so you wouldn't think having such
an experience would be of benefit? well that took him off the ship...
it was sunk and alot of the crew were attacked by sharks.....

* i think some of the best trip reports are hose having to ovewr come
obstacles and the magic they produced!

good for you! ...looking for the things your amily did accomplished under
very trying circumstances..the only thing i think would be worst...is having
someone losing their pictures/movies?...

i am truly sorry for your loss & grief...it sounds like many here all hoping
on a lucky :mickeyjum :shamrock: that the next trip is full of pixiedust: ,
me too! you sound like a wonderful family and you have the right ideas
for bringing the disney magic home! :wizard:
 
It would be a small consolation, but I bet if you copied your post in an email to guest services, you could at least get a birthday button. They might even do something special like send a belated birthday card if you get a cast member having a good day.

It's so sad when great expectations go unmet, especially for your little ones.

It doesn't compare to your story, but we thought for once in a lifetime we would get to the White House Easter Egg Roll in Washington last year. Went through all sorts of pain to get tickets. Won't even go into it. In the end, it got rained out. The most heartbroken one was me. The kids were over it at that point.

Kids bounce back. They might even be just as happy at a smaller theme park closer to your home. I've given up on trying to plan the perfect trip and go with the flow more with kids aged 20, 18, 12, and 7.

Hope you get to feeling better soon. :grouphug:

Sheila
 
I'm so sorry to hear about your trip. I've only been to Disney twice, so I know how I would have felt if things went terribly wrong. Starting October 1, Disney begins their Million Wishes campaign. If anyone needs a wish granted it would be your family. I agree with other DISers a different time of year, and a diferent hotel might be just the ticket. I hope your wishes come true.
 
So sorry to hear about all the things that happened on your last trip! Never say never...maybe you will get a chance to go again. I know somewhat how you feel about sicknesses! When we went in January 2002, my husband and I were both sick with a stomach virus so we didn't spend much time at the parks at all. Luckily, my son was 4 at the time and we stayed at the Holiday Inn Family Suites, so he had video games to play! Was a bummer staying in the hotel though! This past June, our family went down again. My husband ended up at CentraCare in Kissimmee. Had a terrible sore throat and got some antibiotics. This time we were on site at ASMo, so I was able to use the busses and take the kids to the parks by myself. I felt bad that my husband was not with us for several days and stuck in the hotel room. I saw all the families(moms, dads, and kids) together at the parks, but my husband was not there. It was sad! The kids did have fun though! My husband says he will never go to Disney again because every time we go, he is sick! Maybe I should have him read this thread to let him know he is not alone and it is not just a jinx on us!!! So, he doesn't want to go back, but I am taking the kids in October 2007 again. I want my kids and I to enjoy the magic even if he doesn't want to!!!
 
That was a terrible vacation. It seems we too always have some sort of disater on vacation. For example on our honeymoom DH had a few to many at the resort and tripped and cut his chin open. Not your everyday cut all the way to the bone and he had to get 5 stiches. In Jamaica they charged 50 per stitch cash only plus the doctor fees. And thankfully they sent a plastic surgeon to the resort for us. In Disney at our family reunion my nephew actually snapped his ankle in 2 rideing a jet ski. Not a fun day there either. But they were all memorable in their on way. I would probably rebook a trip. Totally different experience this time. Redo Disney and make some magic. I hope things work out for your family that is a real bummer to look back on.
 




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