My DW and I got married in January or 2020 on the Disney magic out of Miami. We got married in Castaway. For one if you do choose to do a cruise wedding you won’t regret it! To answer your other questions- when you board your ship you will meet with your onboard wedding coordinator to finalize the details you’ve chosen and discuss if you want to get dressed in your room or the spa, then you’ll go about your normal cruise and the day of the wedding you’ll get dressed in the place you chose and get makeup/hair done if that’s what you chose and they will drive you on a golf cart over to castaway cay. The ceremony will happen then if you chose to have a photographer you will go do your photos with the photographer. If not you’ll go straight back to the ship for the champagne and cake ceremony which I believe was 1-2 hours, but I’m sure if you have a large group it can be longer. You’ll have your first dance and other songs play at the champagne toast and you get to choose the songs for it. Everyone that wants to make a toast may do so, and afterward the ship crew will wrap up your cake cutlery for you to take home! You can choose to do the bouquet toss, just let your coordinator know and as far as going to an adult club after it would probably cost extra and it’s not something my family did, but Disney is pretty accommodating!
