Ok ok so here's the skinny! She called about the code and they found the code and pin with her name. But it was the select dates=different discounts. Which is why she moved her trip. She made 3 calls last night. The first person was rude (can you believe it!). The second person was very nice but said she couldn't break it down. But she actually did say that she was paying $400 for a $500/night room (a discount of 20%).
At this point she called me back. I said that CM's should be able to help her, sans attitude. And tossed out all the options I could think of, like holding this reservation and then changing it if something else comes along. But no matter what, someone should be able to answer her questions.
So she called back and spoke to someone very nice who was able to help her out. First, she hadn't had to book a package to get that discount. She could get a better discount with different accomodations, but the options didnt work for them. So in the end, the CM was able to balance to total price by discounting the dining portion (of course we'll see what happens in a few weeks).
So in the end, Disney comes through and makes it right. Phew!