We LIKE having a car, and we like being able to come and go as we please. I am not one for waiting for buses. If the kids are cranky... then I want to leave right then and there, no waiting around for me.I like being able to come back and forth to the parks with no waiting.
We drive to WDW, but last year we only used the car twice. Once because we stayed in the park to long to use the bus to get to HDDR, and once to buy film and batteries at CVS. To us, it was just so convenient to sit and relax, and let someone else handle the driving.
We liked the
DDP. If we were paying OOP for each meal, then we would probably do the same as you... CS and cheaper restaurants off property. However, last year we really enjoyed getting to sit and relax in the evenings for an hour or so. The CS places are loud and busy, and I never feel like I've had "down time." DDP allowed us to eat at all the places we wouldn't have considered otherwise. I also like having everything paid before I get there... makes it less stressful to not see that high bill after your meal!

We do breakfast in our room... either a bowl of cereal or pop tarts or something. We also bring snacks and water... not wasting those snack credits on water!
We also really take advantage of the EMH. My kids are night owls, and we stayed through the end of EMH every evening. To us, it was worth the extra money to have that 3 hours of minimal crowds.
Has anyone ever used the Disney Magical Express?
My sis did it last year and liked it. I agree with DM... she can pack her carry on to hold her over until the luggage arrives, or pick up her luggage herself. I personally would just get my own luggage, and not have to worry about it.
even if your little ones are having a melt down (I know mine did sometimes when they were little) by the time you walk to your car
My kids both lost it both times we had our car there. They would go all night without a problem, but for some reason the walk to the car was too much for them!

Also, IMO the wait for the ferry or monorail is about the same as the wait for the bus. With the exception of the buses at DTD...
