We are planning a trip in the fall of 2002. I have read this site and others and their seems to be code type words in regards to discounts. Are there specific questions or codes you ask when calling for a reservation. I'm new to the internet and don't know all the lingo. We want to stay at a "deluxe" hotel and want to find the best discount. We are also airline folks and can always use that discount and disney club members. Any suggestions? PS one child is autistic, any do's and don'ts from others?