Bummer! Maybe he'll relocate for you?
His profile does mention a desire to move to a "warmer climate"... I'd say Texas is definitely warmer!
Hehe! I hear Ireland is really nice...
He did mention that it was 16C today (that's ALMOST 61F)! His summer is my late fall/early winter temperature! Heck, we won't even get down to that at night for months!
Dene (and others who have done the whole online dating thing)...looking for your thoughts.
You got 'em! I was just talking about on-line dating to two women at a party last night... they're both tired of it... for pretty much the same reasons you're describing.
I don't know if I'm just being too picky, but I tell you what. The people that email or wink at me are strange...and its not just the immediate lack of physical attraction. Their profiles are crazy.
Uh, yeah! Lot's of weird going on. One guy that that emailed me today is either very intense/passionate or a stalker/serial killer... seriously.
Then there are the decent ones that I wink at or email and never get a response from. I don't get it. I know I deserve better then what is jumping out at me. That's for darn sure.
Yes, you do deserve better... and I HATE being ignored! I know they read my e-mail (cuz I pay extra to see that)... I know they read my profile (at least I don't have to pay to see that)... they just never respond! At least tell me "no thanks"! My friend, Beth, said there are lots more women than men on there... so they guys "have their pick" and will sometimes leave women hanging while they work on someone else.
I guess I'm just wondering if you just go on a lot of dates despite not feeling an initial attraction from their profile and through emails, etc.? Or do you feel that attraction but then it doesn't really pan out once you meet? Make sense? I know I can be picky, but honestly, their profiles are not so flattering towards themselves.
That's my problem. And one reason I got the new pictures is so, hopefully, I'll attract a higher quality of weirdo... I mean man.

(Although both my daughter and mother said my favorite pic doesn't look like me... it looks more like the person I see in the mirror than any picture I've had in years!... They each said I was prettier in person... so I guess I can forgive them.)
And you wrote "make sense"... have you noticed how many of those guys have a good "sence" of humor?

Dude! Get a spell checker... typos are okay, but when you misspell the same word 3 times!
or type in all lower case without any punction whatsoever it starts to bug me i cant stand it
THAT, OR TYPING EVERYTHING IN ALL CAPS!
If anyone has access to match profiles, my name there is the same as on here. Maybe someone hijacked my profile and posted "Lonely desperate girl seeks losers and weirdos"?
It's the two pictures with the red demon eyes and the dog with the glowing demon eyes... that or that you like Gilmore Girls... JUST KIDDING (well, not about the Gilmore Girls... just kidding)! Looks pretty normal to me. Might expand some of you date descriptions... blue eyes is the only thing you have. That may be what you "prefer"... but is it a deal breaker? Also, the his religion and marital status (what if he is a great guy that is divorced or a widow?... could happen). I understand you on the "none" for kids... raised somebody else's kids plus my own... don't want more. But, what if he has a child that he doesn't see often (like in another state, only sees at certain holidays or a bit of the summer)?
The women at the party and I came to the conclusion that the majority of the guys are jerks or weird... the ones that would be good are either snatched up quickly or they are REALLY gun-shy because the wife or girlfriend hurt them... bad. They usually have clues like how they repeatedly say they want an "honest" woman, etc. My cousin in California is a really nice guy... his problem with the online stuff was when he'd find a woman, she only wanted him so he could take care of her and her kids.
I'd hate an arranged marriage... but it sure would solve a lot of problems. And if it didn't work, we could just blame our parents and the matchmakers.
OMG! I just had the most HORRIBLE thought! You know how a long time ago, when a man would die, sometimes his brother would marry the widow? Oh, yuck!!!!!! My two BILs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I hope that everyone takes care and continues to make ground on their weight loss efforts. I will certainly try to stop in every couple of weeks to say hi and to see how everyone is doing. I'm going to miss everyone of you.
Take care of yourself...

We'll be thinking of you! I know you'll do well with your studies...
