most rides exit into a store or walk way I would walk the line with her and go to the exit and meet her there. unless she can walk thru walls or not read directions she should be fine getting to the point you can meet her. if fact most times the chicken exit takes you to this area you just can not see the ride as such. the 2 rides that I am not sure of how it would work but bet someone else will know are Pirates and Big Thunder Mountain. the one I know how it works is Haunted Mansion. you take the center elevator down and she rides you and she both come out in walkway then walk past ride photo and walk into gift shop. you can not see the ride but you are close to same spot if that makes sense
I agree with the ‘walk thru the line and go to the exit and meet her there’.
You don’t need
DAS or anything else to do this and ALL attractions will have a way for you to change your mind before boarding.
Some have a marked ‘chicken exit’. If not, or if you don‘t see it, let the CM at the boarding area know you want to exit, but your child will ride.
Expect that you will be directed to the exit and won’t be allowed to wait for your child at the unload area. For your child, the exit is usually very obvious - it’s the only way you can go. Rides often exit into a nearby themed gift shop.
Before getting into the line, you can ask the CM near the entrance where the ride exits. They won’t usually ask why, but if they do, you can just say someone is meeting you there.
Pirates isn’t a roller coaster and doesn’t have warnings, so I’m guessing you will ride it. If you don’t, that’s one without an easy way to exit without riding because the exit is in a different building. The easiest way out there would probably just to leave the same way you came in; if you don’t leave that way, you will need a CM to accompany you backstage to the exit - the place you would be taken is NOT the same place as the regular exit.
Pirates exits in the Pirated themed gift shop. As you enter the shop, continue all the way to the back left of the shop. There won’t be anything marked, but you will see guests coming out of a passage there.
Big Thunder Mountain Railroad loading is on one side of the ride car and unloading is at the same place on the other side of the ride car. So, you would just step thru and continue to go out of the building and wait there.
Haunted Mansion, I think the poster who wrote the instructions here confused it with another attraction or
Disneyland. It isn’t a thill ride and doesn’t have any warnings, so you will probably ride it. The part of the attraction before boarding is called the Stretching Room; when that part is done, one door opens up into another room where the line for boarding begins. If you choose not to ride, let the CM know when you are exiting the Stretching Room and they will direct you through a door to an exit hallway. Just continue out into the courtyard which is where your child will end up after the ride (there are no photos or gift shop).