I don't understand people thinking they can tell who "really" needs
DAS or a mobility device just by looking at them. Obviously they have never experienced life with someone with any kind of disability.
But it shouldn't take personal experience to show empathy. Just like in all aspects of life, you never know what someone has to deal with so why not just be kind. Sure some people will try to game the system (any system), but that should have no effect on how YOU treat people.
We've used DAS for years -first for my son and recently for myself too - and now that we're local we use it at least weekly. Luckily I've never noticed anyone making snide remarks about us using it, but, then again, I'm hard of hearing so who knows what I've missed over the years.
I look like an overweight middle age woman. I use a rollator every time I go to the park, unless I use my
scooter. I hang my popcorn bucket off one handle and most time I have a cooler lunch bag on the seat that holds our lunch and some water bottles. Myself and my kids each have a bag we carry. I make them carry their bags in the morning, but later in the day I'll let them put the bag on the seat. You catch us on a cooler day when we start the day with a sweater and even more can be piled on my walker. I'm sure some people just assume I use the walker to carry our stuff.
Then there are the days I use a scooter. I really should use a scooter more but have multiple health issues one of which makes it hard to walk and one of which makes it hard to sit. Now that my kids are older I can walk a bit while they drive the scooter. I'm sure people think the worst when they see us switch. I have a cane on those days but it doesn't help as much as using the walker.
*I just had an idea - I could now take both my walker and my scooter. I could switch between the two during the day as needed with a child (or my husband on those rare times he can join us) taking over for the one I'm not using. Can you imagine the looks our family would get?*
As for using the DAS and getting right on the rides. That's never happened for us unless it's a 5-10 minute standby line. Same with the wheelchair return time.
How about we all just stop worrying that people may be cheating. Disney's system works pretty well. And you absolutely cannot tell if someone needs a DAS or mobility device just by looking. Even if you think they are 100% cheating you could be 100% wrong.