Despite not having paid much attention to the main thread
at all 
, I have been keeping half an eye on it the past couple of weeks. Although I haven't really had an opportunity to check out the suggested restaurants (until now), my reasons for not posting are not that I haven't had anything to say. Quite the opposite - I have quite strong opinions (no surprise there

) - but I haven't had the time to properly express them.
Firstly, a
HUGE thank you to Mandy for doing all the legwork. I know what a thankless task it is trying to organise something like this. Thank you, too, to Nat and Joh for sticking their necks out regarding F&B's following our conversation at Tony Roma's a week or so ago. For me, this weekend is about having a really good laugh with friends old and new. That's the reason that, despite my loathing of nightclubs, I'm not going to write off the prospect now. Maybe when it comes to it, I'll want to go along. I understand that, for some (that would be Joh

), Reflex is the focus of the weekend and
not fancy food. For me (a foodie bar-none) to have the opportunity of going somewhere like Southampton with all its choices (Gloucester is foodie hell) and end up in TGIs one night and somewhere similar the next, would be criminal. I completely understand that plenty of people really enjoy TGIs and the like, so I'm happy that we've come to the compromise of doing that one night and somewhere a bit different the next. All those selected for the poll look more than acceptable. I haven't (and won't) torture myself with places
not on the list.
As the food takes far greater priority for me than the nightclub thing, I haven't taken into account the proximity to the hotel or the nightclub. That's another area where I prefer to remain in blissful ignorance, so I can just focus on the food venue. If I have to get a taxi to Reflex (I think we may need to rename it
Reflux if my experience of food followed by dancing is anything to go by!

), so be it.
I immediately wrote off Coco Rio because of the 6pm thing. I do remember thinking it looked pretty cool when I checked it out last week, but I'm not even going to go there now. It's an easy one to knock off the list from my point of view.
Joe Daflos looks like a stunning venue, so it was with a heavy heart that I chose to deselect it due to its limited menu. Shame.
La Regata isn't as swanky, but it still looks funky and, if they can pull it off, the tapas menu is superb. I can see us having a rip-roaring time there.
The Oxford Brasserie
really appeals to my foodie inclinations, but there are no photos of the interior of the restaurant which worries me - just glossy magazine shots of the food. Ordinarily I would go off in search of other photos and reviews, but I don't have the luxury of time at the moment.
On the face of it, La Cantina's website appears a bit tacky, but the photos of the place and the menu both really appeal.
At the end of the day, we won't know until we get there and experience it. I won't be disappointed whichever of these options comes out on top. I have to commend Joh for presenting a completely unbiased synopsis. Given her well-documented food bias, it's impossible to guess her choices from her descriptions.