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do you ladies mind if I join you?

I'm currently doing chemo for uterine cancer and I could use a freind or two who've been throguh chemo.
 
Sorry you are dealing with cancer and chemo, Lessa.

You are very welcome to join us, actually glad you found us. I have not had chemo, but there are others here who have.

We already have other regulars with different issues than BC, all are welcome.
 
This came in a newsletter I received from my support center today. I thought I would share it here. I know for myself I continue to struggle with the sometimes difficult emotions that come along with a cancer diagnosis. Readings like this help me keep them in perspective. :angel:

This being human is a guest house. Every morning a new arrival. A joy, a depression, a meanness, some momentary awareness comes as an unexpected visitor. Welcome and entertain them all! Even if they're a crowd of sorrows, who violently sweep your house empty of it's furniture, still treat each guest honorably. He may be clearing you out for some new delight. The dark thought, the shame, the malice, meet them at the door laughing, and invite them in. Be grateful for whoever comes, because each guest has been sent as a guide from beyond. Rumi, The Guest House
 
Welcome, Lessa. Would you like to share your story? We'd be happy to :listen: and offer some support in whatever way we can. I've been through chemo too as have lots of others here. :grouphug:

BTW if my DH was home he'd be :rotfl2: at me right now because he knows geography isn't my forte, but may I ask - where is Pern? :confused3 :teeth:
 

ElenitaB :bday: Sending up prayers for a successful surgery today...go get 'em!

Ann- Congrats on your last rads - whoooo hoooo!!! :cheer2:

Lessa of Pern-I'm glad you found our little home! I have a love/hate relationship with chemo... ::MickeyMo :maleficen

Linda- Thanks for the entertaining thought...

I just got home from my PS's office where I had my reconstruction re-tattooed (the old ones have faded over the years). His PA did it, she was a really lovely lady who does medical missions to Africa. This hurts more than a regular tattoo I must say. Even though I'm numb there, the nerve issues really come into play. It's difficult to describe unless you've had it done. Anyway, I ended up getting a shot of Lidocaine so it was fine.
I did notice a sign out in the lobby that they've opened a spa there.... ahhhhh.... :goodvibes I'll have to inquire about that!

GAGWTA! :grouphug:
 
sure.

I wnet to my gyn in january with abnormal bleeding. she thought it was a menopausl issue --I turned 45 in february -- and scheduled a D&C. she said she'd do a biopsy but felt it wasn't cancer.

so I was stunned when she called me with the pathology report.

she referred me to two different gyyn oncologists. both agreed I'd need a hysterectomy, but each had a different surgical approach and post-surgery treatment plan. I wnet with the doctor with the more agressive approach. had surgery in february -- the pathology report says my cancer is at stage IIIC.

I had radiation therapy in april and may.

when I saw the oncologist in june he told me he wanted me to do six cycles of chemo. uterine cancer isn't as agressive a disease as ovarian cancer, but he wanted to treat me as if it were ovarian to make sure we did everything to prevent a recurrence. (told you he's aggressive!)

so I started chemo two weeks ago.

puts you on a real emotional roller coaster, doesn't it?
 
6. PERN


Location: Pern is the third planet of the golden star Rukbat, in the Sagittarian sector, an indeterminate distance from Earth. Rukbat has four other original planets, plus a stray planet that it has attracted and held in recent millennia. The stray has an erratic orbit that brings it close to Pern about every 200 years.


Discoverer: Unknown. Pern was settled by Earthmen during a period of active colonization some hundreds or thousands of years ago; contact with the mother planet was lost during the first encounter with the Red Star, the rogue planet.


Book: Dragonflight (1969) by Anne McCaffrey, together with its sequels Dragonquest, Dragonsong, Dragonsinger, Dragondrums, and The White Dragon.


Description: Pern is similar to Earth in many respects, with temperate weather, breathable air, a gravity of about Earth intensity, and plants and animals that can be used for food and other purposes. The humans on Pern have settled into an agrarian society on a medieval level, with the technology, social system, and political configuration of the Renaissance period. At the top of the social scale, however, are the dragonriders, whose beasts of burden are large, scaled, telepathic reptiles of high intelligence. The dragons can teleport in both time and space nearly instantaneously, carrying their riders with them; the rider must be able to picture the destination clearly in his or her mind before the creature can reach through time or space and transport the person. The dragons are necessary instruments in the fight to preserve humankind against the inroads of the Thread, spores of searing plant life that filter down through the skies of Pern whenever the Red Star is near, during a 10-year period that occurs every 200 "turns," or years. The huge flying creatures use their fiery breath to sear the Thread before it touches Earth, where it burrows and devours any organic matter with which it comes in contact. The dragons were created by the settlers during the first pass of the Red Star, when they realized they were cut off from the help of Earth; the last few technicians used their skills to breed the small, native flying lizards into an effective fighting force. During the course of McCaffrey's saga, the people of Pern fight off a new attack triggered by the Red Star, discover something of their origins, and begin to change their social and political systems through the development of new technology and new ideas.
 
Welcome Lessa! Glad you found us.

Congratulations Ann! How wonderful that this step in your cancer-free journey is over today.

Happy birthday Elenita. :cake: You are in my thoughts and prayers today. Love your attitude!

GAGWTA! :wizard:
 
Lessa, I don't blame you for taking the more aggressive approach. I did the same. Yes, there are a lot of emotions involved, ones I still struggle with at times - close to 2 years after my diagnosis. Are you involved in any support groups?

As for Pern, all I can say is :scratchin :rotfl:
 
I work full time. I took a leave of absence after my surgery and returned to work after the radiation treatments were over. Iwent through radiation in a state of denial -- I didnt feel sick, so I wasn't sick, and all those other people at the radiation center were much sicker than I was...

my oncologist has a support group in his office, but it meets tuesday mornings -- I can't get there.

I think I'll be looking around for one, though. maybe at the hospital where I had surgery and radiation. maybe at the sloan kettering clinic near my house.
 
Congrats Ann on finishing rads!! I think it was worse on me then chemo - I guess because I expected it to be "easy" compared to chemo. But it was more trying since it was an every day thing!

Elenita - Happy birthday and many more!! Good luck with your surgery. You've got the right attitude to get rid of it for good!

Lessa of Pern - Welcome - I've been through chemo as well and will glady offer support! I don't think I realized until recently how lucky I was - I never missed a treatment even though I had dose dense every 2 weeks - 8 rounds. I was a Stage IIIB at diagnosis and am now cancer free - so don't let that intimidate you! Someone has to be in the survival % - so why not us? :teeth:
 
Ann - great news about finishing with radiation! Another reason to celebrate :flower:

ElenitaB - happy happy birthday, and as you say, I wish you many more! Good luck with surgery, and speedy healing both in body and spirit.

Dan - my mum is like that too with the "get it out of here" aggressive thing. She says she just wants it out of her. That's how she's looking at her surgery for next month. Yes it's a big operation but she is ready for it. She wants the whole thing gone!!!!!!! I'm so pleased she's seeing a positive slant to this horrible way to spend September.

GAGWTA as always from here in sunny Scotland - sun for a whole hour today, in between rain showers. Temp 65 degrees. Aren't we lucky??? NOT! :rotfl2:

Louise
 
that's why I chose the oncologist I did...

I wasn't home yesterday when I got a call yesterday from my primary physician's office, the "please come in for an appointment" call. I called back today, thinking "what do they know that I don't know?"

it's no emergency, I made an appoitnment for the end of the month -- he just wants to go over some of the test results -- but OMG was I panicked.
 
Elenita - Here's some love, prayers and hugs your way.......

:wizard:
 
Welcome Lessa! My doctor, too, was very aggressive when treating my cancer. I had a lumpectomy, lymph nodes were clean which meant the cancer probably hadn't spread. But she still recommended both chemo and radiation because I was so young (I was 42 when diagnosed) and she wanted to give me the best shot at a long, cancer-free life. So that's the route I took, even though other doctors would have just settled with radiation only.
 
Welcome Lessa!! :)

I love seeing the strength and determination and upbeat attitudes on this thread !

Thought of Elenita today :cake:

Thought of you all today too. On my first day of rads I brought a Disney compilation CD. I thought it fitting that I bring it my last day too, on of the RT's remembered that that was what I had with me day 1 too :) Anyway, this one song on there makes me think of the support of you ladies, and my other DIS friends, and my family and other friends too, through these last several months.
If I was Dan M I'd have the music play in the post, but I have no clue how. ;) So here are the lyrics from Kenny Loggins' song from the Tigger Movie...

Your Heart WIll Lead you Home"

Sunny days and starry nights and lazy afternoons
You're counting castles in the clouds and humming little tunes.
But somehow right before your eyes the sun fades away,
Everything is different and everything has changed

If you feel you lost
And on your own
And far from home
You're never alone you know
Just think of your friends
The ones who care
They all will be waiting there
With love to share
And your heart will lead you home

Funny how a photograph
Can take you back in time
To places and races that you thought you'd left behind
Trying to remind you that you're not the only one
That no-one is an island when all is said and done

If you feel you lost
And on your own
And far from home
You're never alone you know
Just think of your friends
The ones who care
They all will be waiting there
With love to share
And your heart will lead you home

There'll come a day when you're losing your way
And you won't know where you belong
They say that home is where the heart is
So follow your heart and know that you can't go wrong.

If you feel you lost
And on your own
And far from home
You're never alone you know
Just think of your friends
The ones who care
They all will be waiting there
With love to share
And your heart will lead you ...


If you feel you lost
And on your own
And far from home
You're never alone you know
Just think of your friends
The ones who care
They all will be waiting there
With love to share
And your heart will lead you ...
where you belong ...
I know your heart will lead you home.


DH is taking us out to dinner, so I need to go slather the lobster**** with Aquaphor and change my clothes :teeth:
 
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