Linda, I think my dad was living with a lot of fluid on and off for awhile.
He could not sleep laying down because he had that drowning feeling, so my mom would drive him around and around for hours at night to help him relax and sleep a little. Before he got this bad we tried to talk him into getting a sleep study to determine if he had sleep apnea (he was an extremely heavy snorer for decades (heavy smoker too until about age 62 -he died at 70).
He also had a very stressful job. He lasted about an hour in the sleep study the two times he tried. I don't think he could fall asleep, anxiety, early CHF, who knows. He also was very skeptical about the veracity of sleep studies. He was very conservative in everyway, and felt that the docs and sleep clinics were trying to sell him a bill of goods on the CPAC.
Luckily, DH listened to his doc in 2003. His cholesterol was high suddenly, and he had gained a lot of weight in a short period of time. I went with him to see the doc, and when I reported how bad his snoring was, he ordered a sleep study. The technician aborted the study after a short time, he had so many episodes of apnea that his blood oxygen was dangerously low. He slapped on the CPAP, and presto chango, the episodes were minimal and his oxygen soared. I am sure he was headed for trouble with his family history.
He still is not on any cholesterol meds, it seems to be better after changing his diet. He still needs to lose weight, but his job hours make it difficult to fit in enough exercise time. Also, just the craziness of the last year disrupted all our routines, including the exercise stuff.
He hates the CPAP, but we ordered a new mask in December that is less instrusive. He has to be very sleepy when he retires (usually a few hours after I do) so he can tolerate that air blowing. He likes to stay up a bit later anyway until our teens are in (DS17 works late a lot).
I like the idea of grayish countertops, Ann. It is also the smartest choice for grout, shows the least discoloration. My mom has the same tile on her floors up on her countertops too with grey grout. They look the same today as they did in 1999, no aging, no maintenance (my favorite part). They were doing tile for countertops back at that time, it seems to be passe now though. I want something my kids can't damage and that cleans up with just a wipe or two. I don't have the energy for elaborate cleaning, and the last thing I want is to obsess over countertops.
Ann, I love the sound of the stone veneer for the chimney and farmer's porch. What is the farmer's porch anyway, it is not something we have in houses around here as far as I know? Is it screened in?
Don't use that word DVC, Linda.

You'll make me jealous. I have half a mind to go back to work to to be able to buy some points. Have you rented points? The thing I dislike is the way the points go up so much on the weekend. My sister's Sandestin timeshare is the same way, so I guess it is common. At least you don't have to buy a specific week like many TS make you do. The thing I like about her TS though is that you can schedule these getaways of up to 4 days for very low price not more than two weeks from your travel date. Especially good if you are withing easy driving distance. They bought the minimum number of points possibile but can add nights through the getaways (her DH gets loads of vacation and plans to retire soon anyway (no kids). I wish DVC had this, if they did, I would find a way to be a owner.
I think DH would actually go for DVC if I made an issue of it. I guess I am the hesitant one. We have had a lot of luck renting villas from private owners. However, as our teens start to leave the nest, we won't need the 4 BR deal. With just DD10, we can get buy with a studio (for a couple more years anyway) or a 1BR.
You know to at least check out buying DVC resale, don't you? I think you have to really do your homework to assess what's being offered, how many current year or banked points are included, etc. There are some very knowledgeable folks on the DVC DIS boards who know all about that stuff.
Just be informed (look before you leap) on buying in.