GAGTWTA!

We are having a beautiful, spring like day here New England. I love this time of year when the good weather is headed our way!
Dan, thanks for keeping abreast of our thread (pun intended

). It is always nice to hear your good thoughts.
Ann, lots of

going out to you this morning. Sorry to hear about your friend and your friend's husband. It is so hard to hear these things sometimes. I also get upset at work when I see bad things happen, and the other night I saw a fatal accident on my way home, it was so sad.
Someone I know just developed a brain mets which I was also upset about. She had BC a little after me, but they didn't do surgery,

instead they "sucked out" her cancer. At the time I had quite a disagreement with the person telling me this story, a family member, actually, saying in all the reading and research I've done, I've never heard of breast cancer being sucked out instead of cut out. Anyway, I had enough of my own troubles to deal with at the time so I just let it go. It never ceases to amaze me that people in this area are minutes from some of the finest health facilities in the world yet stay with their hometown hospitals for major procedures like this. (Off soapbox now, it just upsets me to see things like this - all too often).
donna, let Monique know we're thinking about her. I've heard those drains can be such a pain. Hoping others who are waiting get good results.
snappy, glad you had a rejeuvenating trip. I felt similarly, though we'd gotten the job news weeks before our trip. (I don't know if I mentioned it but the friends we traveled with actually buried their loved one the day before we left, so none of us were completely sure we were even going to make it there). Where is Sandestin? Sounds nice.
We have been through this before also when DH's company was sold, twice, actually. He also went back to school about 12 years ago and got his degree when it occurred which was great. Since we've been down this road before, we feel fortunate we have the knowledge that things have a funny way of working out for the best oftentimes, so aren't too worried (just yet

). I only work 24 hours a week so if needed I can increase my hours, and we also get out major bennies through my work so those are ok, thankfully. The only thing is that this has been kind of a sad week because DH and his coworkers had to say goodbye. It is a fairly small group, they all went out to dinner on Sunday night, I guess it was very emotional, they are a tight knit group. So the coworkers are done, but as the manager, DH is there the rest of this week closing up the place. I'll be glad when he's out of there because the new owner has been hanging around and has not shown one ounce of sensitivity toward the people who are losing their jobs, just running around complaing about everything. I have very little tolerance for people like this (me, me, me

) so I'm staying away, LOL. In the meantime DH has interviewed for two positions that seem promising, so we'll keep our fingers crossed.
I have to take DD8 to see an ENT, the pediatrician thinks she may need her tonsils out. Now, here's a cool story which once again, I feel as if our guardian angels are watching out for us. My mother often "sees and hears" things. I think she's psychic but to her it's just one of those things, and she doesn't make a big deal out of it. Several weeks ago she was resting in her living room (which is actually part of our house since we have an in-law apt). She opened her eyes and she saw the side profile of a little girl. When she blinked, she was gone. She mentioned this to me, and I found it a bit unusual for her to see a child (though it did happen when I was pregnant also). Sometimes these stories don't make sense at the time, but usually they do later I've found. So a few days ago, DD mentions to me that when she came into our house that day, she heard someone say "hello Suzie" and that it happened a few other times lately too (has never said anything like that before). I said who's voice did it sound like (expecting my father's voice) and she said it sounded like her friend Alice from school. Ah, a little girl.

Fast forward to yesterday. Before we even went to the doctor's I somehow felt we were going to be told she needed her tonsils out and of course, the mother in me started to worry, as I remembered my 4yo cousin who died during eye surgery. Then bam, I put two and two together. I wonder if that was her that was seen and heard around here in the past several weeks somehow letting us know that she's watching out for my DD? Well, I suppose maybe it's a stretch, but it's given me a little peace, because I really do believe in that sort of thing, and even through my own ordeal I've strongly felt the presence of loved ones watching out for me, and had tons of God Winks to help me know it for sure. Thought you guys might like that. We'll see what happens over the coming weeks and whether she is seen or heard anymore.
