Of Boardwalk villas. Where should we go? One adult and one child. Not on Dining plan. Just one night at Disney. Where would you go?
If your child likes characters you could walk to Beach Club for the Cape May Cafe buffet.
How old is your child?
Some of the places like the Flying Fish aren't really kid places.
Children are more than welcome at FF and they do have a kid's menu.
The BW area has many great restaurants, as you can choose from anything at YC, BC, BW, Swan and Dolphin. If you want to do signature dining, there is Flying Fish, Yachtsman Steakhouse, Il Mulino and Blue Zoo. If you want to go more morderate, try Captain's Grille, Spoodles, Big River Grille or Cape May.
While FF has a kids menu - and well behaved children are more than welcome - I wouldn't call it (or Ill Mulino or Blue Zoo) a "kids place". Some restaurants are just more fun for kids and those aren't one's I (or my neice who comes to WDW with us) would call fun for kids
But I don't think every meal that involves a child needs to be a "fun" meal. Personally I think it's important that children be exposed to good food and nice restaurants.
In addition, I think children appreciate the "fun" meals less if they are exposed to them too often. Better to keep the character meals to one or two to make them special IMO.
And as madalex said, children are very welcome at Flying Fish just as they are at all WDW restaurants save V&A and probably Le Bistro.
Finally, we know nothing about the original posters child. Perhaps the child is a very active 18 month old who couldn't possible sit through any table service meal. By the same token, the child may be a mature 10 or 12 year old who appreciates fine food.
I agree with most everything you said - especially if the parent of the child have used this philosophy the child's whole life. A child raised like this will most likely be easily able to sit through a nice meal.
However, I think there is a difference between a "kid place" and "a place where kids are welcome". The quote that madealex responded too said that that person didn't feel that FF was really a "kid place". I agree with that poster. FF is not a "kid place" - kids are welcome, but its not a kid place IMHO