I'm afraid I disagree about Pirates and Spirit of Aloha
My motto is 'try everything at least once' so with that in mind we did Pirates in 2004 and although the audience participation was good I felt the storyline was a bit hard for kids to keep up with and the lead woman's voice grated on me.
The food was nothing if not unmemorable, except for the pudding which was an apple cobbler and I loved it. I also hated the fact they gave you a litte tip tray afterwards. As if you haven't paid enough already but they were asking for quite a bit
In September we stayed at Universals Royal Pacific Resort for the first 4 nights and we did the Luau there which we thoroughly enjoyed, the audience participation was great and the food was really good, the theatre was a really good size and not at all cramped and the Mai Tai's, although really strong, were plentiful

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We, like Wayne, booked Spirit of Aloha to use up double credits because of the free dining but I had also wanted to try it because I love all things Polynesian/South Pacific/Hawaiian etc and had knocked the other 2 dinner shows on the head in favour of this one.
The pineapple bread was lovely and the salad was great, I only eat chicken breast so picked this off but it was tasty but there wasn't enough food for 4 of us and we had to eke it out , the pudding was way too sickly for me but I can't really fault the food at all for a massive dinner show. The show was really weak on the story and the acting was quite hammy but my god it went on forever.
I know it's important to get your money's worth but half way through it my butt had gone numb and I was fidgeting around like my 8 year old just trying to get some life back in to it

At one point I just wanted to get out of there and watch the fireworks over Magic Kingdom that were going off but couldn't because we were at the front!
Having been to both they are remarkably similar in terms of the dancing and fire throwing etc so I don't know who copied who but I would choose the RPR Luau over Spirit any day but i'm glad I did it at least once.
Good luck trying to decide
