We are making a trip in September. 2 adults, 1 child. We will be staying at a value resort for 8 nights, but only going to parks for 4 days (we are military). We will have a couple of rest days and go to sea world as well. When I called, we were quoted 1380 for 8 nights and dining plus and around 550 without dining. Which one would you do? We love character meals but don't have to do a lot. My daughter and I do not eat very much at one time (we are snackers) and do not usually have much room for dessert, although my husband does. We are on a budget, so trying to figure it all out.
We are going in October -- 2A, 1Child and at first I thought, "nope" no dining plan...then I thought hmmm....maybe, then I thought, well we don't eat that way, dessert every meal. I've learned you may be able to get water, fruit, etc., instead of dessert --ok, more appealing.
We have no DP with our pkg, currently. There's no free dining (at this time) when we are going. I made our ADR's based on what I thought we'd like to eat from the menus online. CS would appeal to my DH & DD more than myself. My plan would be (only if free dining was offered) to upgrade to Deluxe and here's why.
1. From what I've planned ADR-wise the cost difference is only $100 more than OOP. I ran "theoretical" tabs from each menu based on what I know we like to and would eat. (I know my DH and DD like the back of my hand!) We currently have a TS ADR for each day...some days there are 2 depending (1 was Via Napoli for Pizza for lunch & 1 was Akershus breakfast)
2. I also have Gift cards for Rainforest Cafe (breakfast before AK day) and Ruth's Chris - dinner after DHS day. Those amounts weren't included. If I chose not to use them and opted for on property dining, I'd definitely be on the + side for the DxDP!
3. DxDP options are more appealing, I'd rather have an app than dessert. I like the option for TS if I want to. I look at more like a modified all inclusive - like on a cruise ship, where you pay your grats and beverages.
Even without using all the credits as TS (or the magical 2/3 as indicated here on the board) I was already ahead $$ wise. Surprised the heck even out of me. I was on the NO dining plan band wagon...no way was I doing the DP!

I'm not eating that way, my DD7 won't eat chicken fingers every day, but I was really surprised when I took a bit to crunch and roll the numbers, view the children's choices at some of the more signature places, but it was worth the time.
Now, would I do the regular DP now that I've crunched the $ for the DxDP?? It's worth a look...to be sure. FWIW, you should crunch the numbers and consider what you'll spend OOP (including groceries, etc) vs DP, it's worth a look.