Although I tend to agree with your point, in general there are exceptions;
Guests who call for a reservation at V&A leave the normal phone queue. Concerige level guests get last minute ADRs at popular restaurants. DME bus drivers said the GF is suppose to be the first stop, or second after POLY, even if that means having to back track. Driving past your resort so GF passengers can get dropped off first, it doesn't get more second class. POP, a value resort, is the last bus stop in most of the theme parks. There are rumors Disney is considering giving preferential fast passes to either guests that pay extra or to guests that stay in deluxe hotels.
Guests might consider themselves "second class" if the brochure promises an appetizer which winds up being a sampler or a soup/salad choice. I don't think those guests could consider themselves second class if the brochure clearly stated what the plan was including. A guest would know the plan included a house salad or soup and he would have to pay extra if they wanted an appetizer. If anything the cash guests might wonder why they're not being offered complimentary soup or salad.
I agree with some of this, Lewis. If it is clearly stated in a brochure, WDW web site, DRC reservations, etc. that DDP includes a house salad, then people decide if they are willing to accept that limitation or not.
But revealing all the details of the various plans has never been a strength of WDW IMO.
Furthermore, not many WDW restaurants offer a house salad at least that I can recall. Soups at WDW tend to be relatively complex and expensive in my experience as well. Of course, restaurants could add house salads and chicken noodle soup.
Some of the other points are DIS legends. In my experience, a club level CM has no better shot at getting you a dinner reservation than the same hotel's desk concierge. They absolutely can not get you in a restaurant that is booked solid. Now perhaps there is a backdoor way to do it for a big star or politico but for the average Joe, you're out of luck.
My daughter and I took ME to the GF and we were the last stop. We stopped at the CR, Polynesian first and although I may be confusing it with another trip I think we also stopped at one of the resorts off Bonnet Creek. At any rate, she and I were the last two off that bus. Another trip we stopped at FQ, POR, CR before again being the last off the bus at the Polynesian. I'm certain we were paying more than those at POR/FQ.
You are correct that you leave the main phone queue for V&A but I suspect that is at least in part because they need to get those reservations
right since the menus are personalized.
Perhaps Pop is the last bus stop. I don't take the buses a great deal but have noticed that the stops for Polynesian and GF are sometimes close at MGM and sometimes toward the end of the line.
Nancy, if WDW promised an appetizer and the server says "that comes with chicken soup or house salad," I wouldn't want to be that server. If somehow it could be clearly communicated upfront as Lewis suggested, that would be different. But it would take a huge change in how WDW has advertised their plans IMO.