and if Disney is still better than other vacation destinations in that way (allergies and such) then I don't see how anyone can have issue with them and if they are not better than you have to make choices to go somewhere else. It's your dollar and you have to vocie yourself in that way. Any special considerations anywhere will have longer waits; I believe. I think you have to expect it. Also, Disney doesn't want to be placed in any scenario that will cause being sued anymore then somewhere else.
This is off topic to a degree, but it's getting harder and harder for me to take my mom places with her Alzheimer's. She is having more and more outbursts in our resort room. I feel I may get kicked out someday from some place; because, she gets overboard at the wrong times like early morning when everyone still wants to sleep. Also, I may have the cops at my door if it gets really bad. I don't want to be placed in that situation. I don't really have any other good options, either to leave her behind or whatever. My doctor doesn't want to sedate her in anyway, because; her age and the disease is to the point where these drugs become a killer. She is better once we are in the public eye and doing activities, but doing hygiene or similar activities in our room can be tough with her outbursts. Even changing from bed clothes to day clothes is a challenge. I know I'm going to have to make hard choices and stop vacationing pretty soon. I can't afford places like the cabin rentals at Disney World or equivalent scenarios where my neighbor doesn't share a wall; so, I'm not disturbing others. Each vacation is getting harder this way. Believe me, I'm not trying to do anything out of the ordinary routine, but she is not understanding the simple things anymore. It's sad and I keep on trying, but I don't expect the vacation destinations to have an Alzheimer's wing for her. I try to get a room at the end of the hall or similar at the resorts; so, we don't have to have neighbors on both sides of us. I even choose areas farthest away from the door to change her clothes or whatever so, that I trigger less outbursts that can be heard by others.
I'm sharing this because you may need to bring your own food, do your own preparation or whatever; so, you can still enjoy vacationing. You do have choices to a degree. I would not lay the responsibility onto Disney especially if it's more out of the ordinary.