Didn't know where to post--need pixie dust

[ironz]

Hi, DIS people...
Just wanted to ask for any spare pixie dust y'all might have around...BF and I that dated for 6 months broke up last weekend. I'm pretty bummed, though he was nice enough to not leave me with a zillion unanswered questions. I know he cares, but I'm not the one for him, apparently.

And the other sad part is, I have a trip to WDW planned for next week with 2 girlfriends (one of whom has not been real supportive of me this past week with the breakup), and I don't even know if I want to go! How sad is that, to not want to go to WDW?

Thanks...just knew the DIS people are so very kind. I suppose I should go ahead with the trip, so I can see my REAL BF, the Beast.

 

[dopeys biggest fan]

A trip to WDW with the girls is EXACTLY what you need right now! Go and have a blast! you can vent your frustrations by screaming on some rides and then heading over to PI to dance the night away! Laughter is the best medicine for a broken heart!

don't forget to hug Mickey!

 

[Pooh67_68]

 

[Disney1fan2002]

GO TO WDW! It will help you "forget" him!

I am sorry this happened, I know exactly what you are going through, the love of my life broke up with me "for my own good" because he cared for me too much., and I would meet someone better for me. Blah.blah blah.

Would you rather go to WDW and have fun woth the girls or stay home and cry in your soup? I say GO!

 

[EsmeraldaX]

I think you should go. It will help take your mind off of it. Sometimes after a break up, taking time with friends and having some good, old fashioned fun, is just what you need.

 

[Mimi Q]

Go and have lots of fun.

 

[luvindisneyworld]

A vacation with the girls is Definetly what you need.

 

[sweet angel]

Here's your choices:
a) Stay home, cry and feel sorry for yourself
b) Go and have a great time.
c) Take this week to take care of (a) and next week, put it behind you and (b).

 

[ironz]

Thanks...
My biggest fear is that the girl who has not been very supportive is going to be all "get over it" with me...though she's probably right, that is just NOT what I want to hear in the first week or two after he left me! Esp. since we are trying to be friends (we train together for triathlon), and I still want to believe he's a good person, as I would have him think about me.

Then again...my other thought has been to see if I can't get there a little early....and have a day or two without the others to just "chill". Would have to look into the costs, though.

You Dis people are so awesome!! I knew you'd be nice and supportive!!

 

[sweet angel]

You know what? He may BE a good person. He may just not feel that the relationship is something he wants. Sadly, things don't always turn out the way we want them to.

While staying friends is a great plan, you need time to heal yourself first. Trying to maintain a status quo while you're hurting isn't going to help. Maybe you can train with someone else for a few weeks?

You need to put yourself first and take care of yourself. Bashing him (with the other friend) may help in the short-term, but probably won't long term.

 

[AlwaysAPrincess]

Ironz...
LIke what was said above...he may be a great guy...just not the GREATEST GUY for you. You deserve the Fairytale & never forget that.

Take care of yourself. Go to WDW!! Some fun with friends is good for you. Treat yourself to something...something youhave never done at WDW. A massage or pedicure at the Grand Floridian Spa. SOmething that will make you feel good!

Now go & enjoy!

 

[Dan Murphy]

I think a trip to the World is just what the 'doctor' ordered, it will do wonders for you.

 

[Tinkertude]

Anybody else see the guy that wrote a book call "He's just not in to you"on Oprah. Maybe something you want to check out. Just might give you perspective from a different angle. I agree with other posters. Go hug Mickey, dance and laugh.

 

[AlwaysAPrincess]

Tinkertude...
Yes I have heard of this book. Oprah did a whole show on it. Quite interesting. A few laughs & a lot of tears. GIves a TOTAL guy perspective!

 

[Disney Doll]

I'm sure he's a nice guy, just as I am sure oyu're a nice girl. Maybe you two aren't right for each other though. It doesn't make either of you less nice.

I'd say go with the girls and have a ball. It might be just the thing to take your mind off the break-up, or at least put it into perspective.

As far as staying friends with the ex...hard to do, especially right after the break-up when the feelings are still "raw". Don't try too hard, if you can find another training partner or are able to train alone, do so...at least for a few weeks. Hard to get over someone when you are seeing them fairly regularly.

 

[2MuchOhana]

Hope you decide to go. Maybe you won't be over him; but don't let him ruin your good time with your friends.

Jodi

 

[chrissie123]

Go and enjoy yourself.... Wish i was going with you...