WDWAurora
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It was important to both of us to be married in a church. My church that I grew up in is ugly (mauve carpet, pee yellow walls) and it has 2 aisles-no center. It just wasn't an option. I wanted to get married at the chapel at the local college, but it was taken for our date so we got married at a church right across the street from my high school, which was a little funny. My pastor did insist on counseling us, which was a little weird since we'd been together so long and I'd been trained to do pre-marital counseling, so I knew all the questions in advance! We were really happy with the church though, and its fellowship hall was great for the reception.

We had a small reception in my parent's backyard. We were married 23 years ago.
Anyway they kept going round and round about it. I suggested Unity Temple in Oak Park, IL where I grew up. He is a big Frank Lloyd Wright fan. So that's where they got married. It was a non-demonination ceremony. They made sure to tell they officient that they wanted no reference to God. They just celebrated 8 happy years. To my in-laws they got married in a church. To them they got married in a cool Frank Lloyd Wright building. Everyone was happy!