Thanks, everyone, for your feedback. It was all appreciated. To those (Jean and abeyst) that recommended OKW - that is what finally came through. We're still wait listed at BLT.
I really didn't have an issue with SSR as a resort and was thinking that the ability to walk over to to downtown Disney was going to be a great perk, I was truly concerned with the space for toddlers, infants and pack and plays.
So now they have switched us to OKW and I'm feeling better about it. I'm still disappointed that my daughter won't get to experience BLT prior to buying but it will all work.
This has all been an educational experience for me! I thought I understood how it all worked but you never really get it until you have to try and change something. I am sure I read it, but I didn't know that you are taken off the wait list 31 days prior to your vacation - which means we were on the wait list for like a week? It was my daughter (not the one who is buying) that figured that out and helped me get us switched over to OKW.
So we'll see what the experience is like at OKW and have to save the Saratoga Springs experience for another trip when we don't have twin 5 month olds, a 1 year old, and a two year old along. The two that generally go down each trip (a nine year old and the one year old) are fine no matter where we stay.
Thanks again.