I understand completely.
I, too, was laid off almost a week ago and I will say that I am completely depressed.
Our entire office closed, and we knew it was coming. Fortunately, we were provided a severance, so I have something to go on for a little while, but I carried the insurance for the family, so that piece worries me terribly (I can get COBRA or insurance through DH work, but it is the extra 1200/mo that I am frantic about.
I started looking agressively at the beginning of July. I really thought that I would have found something. Quite a few people in my office did find work and transitioned right to their new jobs this past Monday.
I know that I have so much to be greatful and thankful for, but, I feel that I have no purpose...isn't that crazy??? I have a home to care for and two kids that need me, that should be my purpose, right?
I'm sorry your DH is going through this, I don't wish these feelings on my worst enemy. Please support him (it sounds like you are very supportive) and do tell him how what he is doing right now in the home and for the kids/family is very important. Please tell him that he is not alone and that this is no reflection on him. I wish him (and your family) the very best.
Hopefully, our economy will get better very soon!! Sorry to have hijacked your thread!