while we LOVE LOVE disney, and I know I am going to say this on a disney board...
there is so much more to life than disney.
My kids have had no shortage of disney trips in their short lives.
But, I guarntee if you ask them what their favorite things to see on vacation are, while disney will be on the list, it won't be the only thing, and probably won't even be the top thing on the list.
We did DC with a 1, 4, 6, 7 year olds, and they all LOVED it. They still talk about it, and all the stuff they saw. We did as much as we could, the monuments, zoo, arlington (they were in awe!), holocaust museum (the kids section, which has sparked such an intense desiere for learning, that my oldest who is now nine has read just about every book she can get her hands on about WW2, espically anne frank)
We have traveled across the country with them, and while we love a good disney trip, there is so much more to life. So much more I want them exposed to than rides and characters.
My kids love yellowstone, and las vegas, they loved the redwoods, they had a ball in forks looking for vampires, they cheered for every cowboy at a rodeo in wyoming, this year they are looking forward to seeing whales and moose on our trip. we are going through Vermont, New Hampshire, Maine, Mass, CT, NY. They can't wait to go to arcadia national park, to see the mayflower, to go to the beach and boogie board (a new found love they found out last year in CA).
We are strong believers that the more experiences our children have, the more well rounded they become. And its such amazing real life learning. My kids teachers are always amazed at how much knowledge my kids know, and most of that knowledge is because they have been there done that.
My daughters kindergarten teacher was amazed this year, when her teacher was talking about when she got married there was a big volcano that had erupted. My daughter raises her hand and says, was it Mt St Helens? Its really cool! And was able to tell the teacher about the inner workings of a real volcano (and that daddy took a helicopter to see the inside of the volcano).
While I love disney, and disney is an amazing place to go, don't discount how much fun you can have other places. And how much fun your kids can have to.