I was actually thinking about getting DF a groom's cake, because we're not having a wedding cake but I think he kinda wants one. SO I was going to surprise him at the rehearsal dinner with a groom's cake in some kind of Back to the Future thing, IF I can find someone to do it (Back to the Future is his fave movie, LOL!). If it doesn't work out, I have no clue if we're going to do gifts. I think it is traditional though to give each other wedding gifts.