Describe your Spouse/SO

[binny]

Not neccesarily their looks but lets hear why you love them, what attracted you to them in the first place, that sort of thing.


James and I met through a friend but since we were living in different countries our relationship started over the phone. I loved his voice to begin with he has this really deep, sexy voice.
He was so very caring and we talked every night for a couple of hours each night ( leading to a $600 phone bill in 6 weeks)
I really felt like I got to know him though. When we finally met face to face 6 weeks later we were both head over heals in love with each other.

In the last 10 years ( our 9 year wedding anniversary is next week) he has become even more wonderful.
You should see how the kids greet him when he comes home! Everyone screams "DADDY" and runs and attacks him He gets down on his knees and holds each one of them and talks to them. This is EVERY day
This, to me, is incredibley wonderful


I really appreciate how he is so attentive and listens to what I have I say. He treats me as an equal ( dont laugh Ive been with men who didnt) and pampers me.


These are just some of the reasons I love my dh.

How about you?

 

[shep]

Geez, I think this is a loaded question since DW is here but here goes...
I first noticed her beautiful blue eyes and long blondish brown hair, and then had had this really nice smile, and then the tight jeans..

She tends to my every need and always puts others first(including family & some others in need which can drive me nuts sometime )

She keeps my chocolate needs fulfilled by always having goodies under the cake dome...

She lets me do whatever I want(golfing on saturdays & hanging out with friends), and trusts me.

She visits my mom & dad once a week so that they can see my girls..

I know I have left out things, but this is what I am thinking of right now..

 

[poohbears5]

We met at 17 I almost ran him over he was on moped the first things that I liked was his eyes and his smile. We have been married for 17 yr this March and we have 5 kids and he still makes me smile everyday and is my best friend!

 

[scarlett873]

my DH is one of the world's most wonderful men...well, at least to me...

we met way back in high school...i was 14 at the time, he was 15...(we are now 29 & 30)...my initial attractin was that whole "bad boy" image thing. this was back in the late 80's...so, you know...the jean jacket, sunglasses, etc. he was pretty rebellious at the time. but after we dated for awhile, i got to know the REAL man inside. he's very loving and sweet. incredibly romantic. he listens to me. he wants my opinion on everything. he's one of the most generous men i know. he knows that right thing to say all the time. he's always reassuring when i need it. he supports me and my decisions. i'm not just his wife, i am his best friend. he treats me as an equal in our realtionship. he's just plain incredible...

all the more reason i was drawn back to him 10 years later...

 

[Muppet]

Well, we meet all the back in 1992. Nic was 21 and I was 17. We were introduced through mutal friends. He has the most amazing smile and lovely blue eyes. He was too a 'badboy' but treated me like a princess. After 4 intense weeks we got engaged.

We have now been together for nearly 11 years. But it still feels like that first 4 weeks. He still treats me like a princess. I can honestly say he makes me laugh everyday, has never taken me for granted.

He just seems to have gotten better as time goes on.

 

[JAP]

DH is wonderful. He is kind and funny. He is also very good looking and great with our children.

 

[CamColt]

When I first met DH, all I knew about him was that he was a bartender, so I was not attracted to him at all(I pictured him at bars all night flirting with women for tips). After our third meeting(and exchanging #s), I found out he actually had a real job and 2 bartending jobs. Right there I saw he was a hard worker who wanted to be successful. Then when we started dating, I wasnt too sure what I wanted because I had an ex-fiancee in the picture and things were really confusing. Once I let myself get to know DH, I found out that we were alike in a lot of ways, like what we wanted for our futures, our thoughts on important stuff(money, kids, etc...). Yet, we were different in some ways, which sort of offset each other. Like Im a hot head, and he just takes everything in stride and calms me down. Plus, we really had fun together.

As for now, he is a great father, a great provider, and he takes us to Disney World. We do still have fun together, just not as often.

 

[smileybrat]

well, since i haven't met him yet, he's kind of hard to describe.

 

[s&k'smom]

Back in the days I had a waistline I was working for an airline and was outside and DH passed me by on his way to a plane. I took one look and thought I'm gonna marry him. Good thing I didn't meet his family for a couple of weeks! considering that his own parents were such poor role models he has turned out to be an exceptional father. Both our kids adore him. Our DS has special needs and DH has lived through his home therapies and lack of sleep. He brings home a pair of jeans or shirt the thinks might look good on me. He wants me to have the best and gets upset when he can't give me the things he wants me to have. He's got a great butt and we got engaged 10 months after our first date and have been married 12 1/2 years and they have been the years of my life. Plus how can you resist a man who loves the movie An Affair to Remember with Cary Grant!

 

[snoopy]

Oooh, I like this thread.

My DH rocks!

Admittedly, I was first attracted to him because he has knock-you-out good looks, but the more I came to know him, the more I realized he is just as beautiful on the inside as he is on the outside.

Just a few things that are terrific about him:

-Yesterday, we went to a party among many of our old friends. Probably 20 other couples and us. Amid all those people, the one person I most enjoyed talking to and hanging out with is the one I am married to.

-He makes my coffee and washes and cuts my grapefruit for me every single morning, regardless of whether he has to go to work or not.

-He's a terrific Dad and has an amazing way of restoring order in our household without ever raising his voice.

-He's responsible, he's kind, he's sweet, he's intelligent, he's hard-working, he always puts himself last and the rest of us first. He's definately the rock our family was built on.

-He defends his subordinates at work and ensures that they get as fair a shake as he can give them.

-He's always been very supportive of whatever it is that I want to do - whether it be go away for the weekend by myself, or make a 360 degree career change.

-He not only gets along, but understands, my nutty dysfunctional family.



I'm so very blessed.

-

 

[grinningghost]

I was working in a restaurant in the mid 80's when DH got a job there. The first time I worked with him I begged my manager to NEVER schedule me with him again, he was such a jerk. Well, after that, we did eventually become friends and then a whole lot more. He looks like a tough guy, but he is truly wonderful. He's a great dad and he's my best friend, we do everything together. He'd better start lowering his cholesterol and his blood pressure, because I don't want him checking out any sooner than he has to.

 

[zurgswife]

He is an evil emporer with a heart of gold.....

 

[tc]

The first thing that attracted me to Stephen was his looks. Initially, I thought he was a jerk, but he sure was cute!

We keeps me in love with him is hard to put into words.

Stephen is a man of little words, except when he writes. He leaves little notes for me, unexpectedly, just to say he loves.

He calls me at work every day just to say hi.

When we are in a large group, and he is on the other side of the room, I know if I look up, he'll be watching me.

He's the best dad. He's caring, understanding and fair. He loves spending time with the girls. He's always made it a priority to have a relationship with each of them. Going to concerts with Kimmi or games with Sarah.

He's a very hard worker, regardless of what he's doing. Although he's in a career he hates, he puts in 100% on the job. He's great with kids and puts in 100% at church.

He has a heart of gold and wouldn't hurt a flea. Despite his rough exterior (6'4", 220lbs, Harley rider) he's a real softy.

He puts up with my Disney addiction, and is willing to spend every vacation we have at WDW if it makes me happy.

I can't imagine living my life w/o him.

 

[honeywolf7]

He's nice looking (6'1", great smile, really nice eyes.)
He's my best friend and I can tell him anything.
He has been there for me as a friend through the end of my relationship with Thom....although he was interested in me from the first, he let me know that he would always be there for me and then let that part go. I know that he'll always be there for me.
He has a great sense of humor.
He is a former college quarterback and point guard and is still a major sports fan who understands how I feel when my team loses (I've gotten a lot of teasing about it in the past from other people, but never from him.)
He is very protective of me and makes me feel safe from anything and everything.

 

[4greatboys]

The thing that attracted me to dh was I thought he was good looking. The thing that makes him such a good dh is he is very laid back. Im the one that gets all bent out of shape, and is the calm one. He spoils me, we take trips because I love to travel.He has a good time once we go, but left up to him he would prob just stay home. He does a great job of taking care of our family, and he is a great dad. Even after a long , hard day at work he comes home and helps out with the 2 little ones. He feeds them or bathes them or plays with them whatever they need at the time. I feel very lucky to have him.

 

[Spirit Feather]

Oh, let's see....

He is an excellent cook (went to culinary school).
Totally not afraid of housework.
Can iron a shirt like no-body's business!
Best dad in the world.
Total computer geek.
Refuses to grow-up--remains at about age 15 most of the time.
Championship Dancer --have the trophies to prove it.
Sings in a barbershop chorus.
Has changed careers 4 times thus far.
Full-time college student.
Knows I am always right.
Reads constantly.
Very smart.
Hunter/Fisher/Camper
Not a sports fan.

 

[kdibattista]

DH is awesome. I don't know any better way to describe him. He is loving, attentive, supportive & sweet and I cannot imagine my life without him!!!!

 

[Keli]

Dave is a very intelligent, good, kind, loving, strong and at times he cracks me up with his humor. Plus he loves me more than I deserve.

 

[*Flower*]

I can't describe someone who is indescribable.

I get moody sometimes and I feel that I treat him badly when I am, but he keeps coming back for more....

He treats me like a goddess, far beyond a queen. He does the laundry, he does the dishes, he's as much or more of a Disney freak as I am.
He's changed his ways for me..... financially. He no longer buys everything that takes his fancy, he actually calls me first. He was the prime force behind us going into debt, and he found a job after his military retirement that enabled me to dig us out.

He makes me laugh, he's tender- he tells me that he loves me multi-times every day (and I get the guilts because I think that I don't tell him enough). I met him when I was 17 and he was 18 at my job. He was engaged and after a couple of dates I told him that I didn't want to be the "other woman".

In July we'll be married for 30 years.

 

[believe]

I fell in love with Shep from the inside out.

He is a big kid that is a wonderful father and husband. He sees my many mood swings and is still married to me. He has a soft side to him. He never ask me what is for dinner or why I didn't do this or that. Even though he gets irritated with decisions I make about helping individuals, he stands by me in my decisions. He puts up with my family, which can be very difficult at times. Even though I told him he may get bodily threats for going out with me (my family is very protective of me)....he is still here. He put up with me changing jobs and sometimes working 80 hr weeks for no money because it was something I loved to do. He never complains about something I buy or the money I spend, when I do spend it. Actually.....He just never complains.

Most of all he is my best friend and I love each and every minute I get to spend with him.