Still swimming here. I did my monthly check in and our balances are all going down, albeit very slowly. I feel like if we could just knock out one or two more bills we would have the cash to really make some progress. For now, we're plugging away.
Do you follow the Dave Ramsey approach?
That is, if you list them in order of smallest to largest, then attack the smallest with all you got. Send minimum payments to all the rest. Usually it doesn't take very long to knock the little one out. It's a great feeling of accomplishment that keeps you motivated and then you can apply that one's minimum payment to the 2nd smallest bill. Once that one is paid off, you apply the minimum payments from bills #1 and #2 to bill #3, and so on.
Also, what works is that each time you pay off a bill, you're adding that bill's minimum payment to your snowball. So by the time you get to the larger bills, your snowball is also pretty large too so each week/month it takes a bigger bite out of the balance and they don't seem so big any more.
Until I read about DR, I would try to send a little extra to
all the bills but I always felt like I wasn't making any progress. It's very frustrating. With DR, I have a plan to follow and it's very systematic; I keep moving down the list as I knock out each one.
I have found that it works really well when I make the payments using the same paychecks that used to pay that particular bill. So let's say Paycheck#2 would always pay the Sears bill $25/month. Once that was gone and I moved on to my
Amazon card, which I would pay on Paycheck #1, I still made my usual Amazon payment with Paycheck #1 but then when Paycheck #2 comes, instead of sending the $25 to Sears, I sent it to Amazon.
So every paycheck still has the same amounts deducted from each of them and it doesn't feel like a huge lifestyle change or a lot of different calculations to make. Just delete one recipient and add another.
Also, I allow a small cushion each week so if dh taps $20 or $40 from an ATM, it doesn't ruin my budget. Whatever leftover cushion I have the day before payday, gets applied to whichever bill I'm attacking at the moment. Even if it's $10 or $15, I like the feeling that I'm sending a little extra. That feeling keeps me from spending that cushion frivolously, just knowing that if I can manage to have
some leftover that's another chance to subtract something from the balance.
Anyhoo, this is working wonders for me.
