Originally posted by vernon
Treesinger said
Jason are you saying that a desire to bring your children up in a world where they're not prematurely exposed to alcohol,drugs, unwanted teenage pregnancies, on demand abortions for teens, rampant sexually transmitted diseases, respect for your elders and a huge youth criminal underclass is somehow extremist?
There may be some extremist "solutions" put forward by "wacko groups" ( to paraphrase you) who share those IMHO understandable ideals. The fact that extremists on all sides can see a situation as undesirable for society doesn't make their observation invalid. Their solutions may be as or more undesirable than the offending behaviour, but to agree with their observation doesn't mean you have to agree with their solution. For example if I were to live in an apartment block and one neighbour played VERY LOUD music all night everynight, I would understand and agree with any neighbour saying that moves could and should be taken to try and stop that antisocial behaviour. It doesn't mean that I'd agree with one of the neighbours blowing his head off with a shotgun.
The point I'm trying to make is that the perception among many Moderate Arab groups is that American society as portrayed on MTV (Christina, Britany + and number of Rap stars) is how American society actually is and how it wants to be. That simply isn't the case, much of America is conservative, respectful and religious but that isn't how you are portrayed in your own media and it's certainly not how you're portrayed in the media you export abroad. I'm not suprised muslims are frightened of the America as shown on Rap videos on MTV, I think those same videos concern many middle class, non extremist perfectly normal Americans. The difference is Y'all know those videos only represent a tiny microcosm of American society. From someone who doesn't know the "real" America and can only judge from the movies,videos and TV shows that are exported the belief is that is a reflection of main stream American culture, values and beliefs.
What is happening broken down to it's simplest form is many people not living in the USA say " If this is how America is, we don't want it". Instead of saying, "well actually that's not how it is, the realitity is .... , we understand your point, because we wouldn't want it like that either" , the response usually is, "screw you, we'll do what ever we want and don't tell us how to live in American, or tell us what we can do outside of America either. We know best and we think it would be best if you all lived like us" .
The truth is, the world would be, probably, a better place if everyone did live as life is in the REAL America, but what is exported as the American dream lifestyle, isn't how you live and IMHO it isn't how you want to live. The vision that is exported is a corruption of reality, but when that vision is questioned, America becomes very defensive, assuming it is an attack on the way you live. If you (plural) could open your ears and minds to what is being said to you, you'd realise the points being raised do have some validity. Many of Islam's fears about America are based on a fiction woven by the American media, with some understanding and a lot of explanation most of those fears would disapear. If you/we can deal with the majority of those justified, but unfounded fears we could show moderate Islam that their greatest danger is not from the west, but from the extremists within their own religion we would be a great deal nearer to building an understanding and much closer to a sustainable PEACEFUL future for all of our children.
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Great post!
I am very nearly a right wing wacko myself. I very much want my children to have the convservative values that DW and I have. And striving for that is not a bad thing. Thinking that CERTAINLY isn't a bad thing. But LEGISLATING is is going too far when taken to an extreme degree.
Wanting a conservative country is not extremist. We agree there. Pushing for legislation to make common sense conservative laws is not extreme. But were we to overthrow the government and form the Radical Fundamental Christian States of America (RFCSA), THAT would make us wackos. Big time wackos.
I'm not saying that observations themselves are invalid because of extremity. But, as an example...
If it is Muslim law that a woman must be clothed from head to toe in black, and you believe in that law, I can't argue with your religious beliefs. But if you make a law rewuiring that all women in your country do as such or they will be beaten bloody, that is wacko behavior.
Myself, I'd rather see Britney Spears dressed from head to toe, but I'd be a wacko for suggesting we beat her if she refuses to do so.
I think you were mistaking me as saying that wanting different ideals is extreme. My definition of extreme is much more strict than that. I think we were agreeing all along there.
On to the media...
I'd like to dress the media from head to toe.

I can't say enough bad things about the media, especially show-biz.
Let's have some words about misconceptions:
1. I know that Ireland isn't full of drunken slobs eating potatos.
2. I know that not all Muslims are terrorists.
3. I know that not everyone in France is smelly and snobbish.
4. I know that not all Englishmen are debonair and sophisticated.
5. I know that not all Swedes are blond hair/blue eyed.
6. I know that not all Germans drink lots of beer and wear lederhosen.
And if I did believe any of the above were true, I'd be an ignorant uninformed person. Anyone who thinks Americans are like those people presented on TV are also ignorant and uninformed. If Muslims think that is what America is, they are ignorant of us. They need to educate themsleves on the world around them. But I think the problem is, that is what the Muslim leadership WANTS their people to think about us, to keep the fire stoked nice and hot. To make us look so Godless and immoral. Further, in Muslim-ruled countries, I don't think the capacity exists for Muslims to correctly educate themselves on the "Real America".
It's a real shame. Most Moral Americans and Muslims want the same things. We want peace. We want morality. We want safe streets, clean parks, running water. Maybe even the Disney Channel. Any American with a little intelligence recognizes this. Many Muslims don't understand this because they are not allowed to see us any differently than MTV portrays us. And if all I knew about America is what MTV shows, I would think the USA was Satan's Playground and a den of damnation. That is neither fair to us, nor fair to them.
If Muslims CHOOSE not to educate themsleves, then they have only themsleves to blame. If they are not ALLOOWED to educate themselves, then it is their governments faults. Which brings me back to how glad I am that we freed Iraq from those chains so they can make those choices now and REALLY have a voice and independent thought.