I have to warn you, it gets worse.
DS's grades have dropped like a rock. It's so bad that now he is failing science and may not be allowed to go to the band competition next week. Policy prohibits participation in UIL events if a student is failing any core courses. We upped his Focalin, we bought new glasses, his grades should be coming UP. I am now thinking it isn't an academic issue, but there is some other problem we aren't aware of. DH and I both asked and asked and asked him and all we get is "I don't know."
He gets angry and defensive, and he lies. Last night he finally said the annoying kid (the one we took to Great Wolf who drove me up the wall) has been really nasty to him lately. The kid CONSTANTLY says "You should stop talking. Nobody likes you, and you aren't funny." The kid shoved him aside in the hall and said "Move! There are IMPORTANT people coming through." I hate this kid. Hate him. He is unsupervised all the time, has a complete flake of a single mom, and is relentlessly looking for attention. Obviously he has decided the way to elevate his social status is to bully DS.
DS has started eating lunch in the science classroom, which was my first red flag. Now I find out the bully comes to the science room as well, and that ISN'T HIS SCIENCE TEACHER.

He is purposely seeking out DS because they only have one class together. Now DS did say yesterday he was trying to finish up some assignments for her, and she mad the annoying kid leave. I feel like she will ban the kid from her room if she knows the whole story. I sent her an e-mail about his grades yesterday, and I told DS to go TELL HER what is going on. So we'll see. I told DS we will get the Asst. Principal involved if we need to, but this is "girly" bullying. All verbal, and no threats. The kid is just a jerk, and I have a feeling if we report it as bullying the administrators will do one of these

and tell me to get on with it.