DDA Chapter 19

[bear74]

here is the link to our new home
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?p=30947632#post30947632

 

[PNO4TE]

Before I go for the night, I did want to add that Chuck has encouraged me to take this job if it is what I want. He wants me to be happy. As always, he is encouraging me to follow my dreams and will support me in whatever decision I make. I don't want anyone thinking that he is anything but supportive in this (except for the idea of him moving down here). He is willing to live apart during the week if this job is what I want. I would never expect him to move down here as long as his mom is alive and needs him.

Am I wrong for wanting this is the question?

No! And I never thought Chuck was being a problem for you. I didn't read it that way at all. I saw your questions and comments as pointing out that you all were willing to work on it and just needed suggestions on how to make it feasible.

 

[PNO4TE]

Tia, thanks for asking about Stephanie. She is feeling better, finally!

How about you, Kelli? Any signs of the same bug?

 

[PNO4TE]

here is the link to our new home
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?p=30947632#post30947632

You are anxious to get us moved, Miss Jennifer! Don't we get 250 pages?

 

[MinnieMouseMom]

How about you, Kelli? Any signs of the same bug?

Nope, I'm fine, thank goodness! Glad to have dodged that bullet!

 

[bear74]

You are anxious to get us moved, Miss Jennifer! Don't we get 250 pages?

doh insert smiley smacking his head
I looked at the page Number wrong
just call me stupid
sorry ladies
unfortunally I cant delete it
again sorry

 

[PNO4TE]

doh insert smiley smacking his head
I looked at the page Number wrong
just call me stupid
sorry ladies
unfortunally I cant delete it
again sorry

It's OK! It will be there waiting for us in another couple of days! Thanks for setting it up!

 

[tinker1bell]

I need some advice. The interview for the job that I've been acting in since October is on Wednesday. I will only take the job if I can get it worked out that I can work 1/2 time here and 1/2 time in the U.P. until things with my MIL are worked out. My boss wants me in the position enough that he is willing to consider that if I'm the top candidate after the interviews. It is a state job so has a very thorough review process. However, the plan would be to eventually move down here full time. I don't know that Chuck is up to that.

We lived down here for 6 years. However, we made the mistake of living in town in a duplex. Chuck needs to have some land around him. He needs nature. I love the U.P. but I have been unhappy in Iron Mountain for some time. I never really wanted to live there but moved there because that is where the job was for Chuck. I told Chuck before I got this opportunity that I wanted to look at moving to a different community in the U.P.

I don't know if I can go back to doing my old job. I love working in Lansing. I love the work that I'm doing. It is possible that if I take this job there will be more promotions in my future which will mean eventually I have to work down here full time.

This really has me torn. I have always followed Chuck for his career. I'm feeling like it is my time for once. However, Chuck is the love of my life and I don't want to make him unhappy.

Vicki,,,,I am sure that he will understand that it is your time and will do what he can to help. It might mean a big move but each one in the marriage has to do that in the time of need. There still can be a half-way point!!!????

 

[Blueeyes101817]

The boards couldn't have gone down at a better time for me. With my mom here we've been very busy so I haven't had much computer time.

Yesterday we shopped, talked, napped, ate, and watched tv. Today she helped me do some landscaping since the weather was so nice. We planted a cute little Japanese Maple tree in the front yard. Right now it looks like a Charlie Brown tree, but I'm hoping after the leaves come out it will be perfect.

Glad you had a nice time...i agree about the board timing-I have been so busy that i can barely get on here to check my email!

 

[PNO4TE]

Glad you had a nice time...i agree about the board timing-I have been so busy that i can barely get on here to check my email!

are you home?!?

 

[tinker1bell]

Before I go for the night, I did want to add that Chuck has encouraged me to take this job if it is what I want. He wants me to be happy. As always, he is encouraging me to follow my dreams and will support me in whatever decision I make. I don't want anyone thinking that he is anything but supportive in this (except for the idea of him moving down here). He is willing to live apart during the week if this job is what I want. I would never expect him to move down here as long as his mom is alive and needs him.

Am I wrong for wanting this is the question?

Vicki,,I felt in my heart that he would follow you for the world. So also in my heart, you are not wrong in wanting this. This may be the best time for you two to do this.

 

[Blueeyes101817]

are you home?!?

nope..not until tomorrow late afternoon..we are just relaxing and awtching movies though..

For those that are on facebook, i put pictures up!

 

[Tammi67]

Before I go for the night, I did want to add that Chuck has encouraged me to take this job if it is what I want. He wants me to be happy. As always, he is encouraging me to follow my dreams and will support me in whatever decision I make. I don't want anyone thinking that he is anything but supportive in this (except for the idea of him moving down here). He is willing to live apart during the week if this job is what I want. I would never expect him to move down here as long as his mom is alive and needs him.

Am I wrong for wanting this is the question?

Absolutely not!

 

[Tammi67]

She has been posting sporadically on facebook and things seem to be OK.

Thanks for the update. I just don't get that facebook thing.

 

[Tammi67]

You are anxious to get us moved, Miss Jennifer! Don't we get 250 pages?

I thought it was a bit early.

 

[Tammi67]

Good morning.

I'm heading into work early, so I can get out early!

 

[PrincessLeighsDaddy]

Good Morning DDA!

I see we are back up!

 

[tinknme]

Vicki I have no advice, but I am sure you & Chuck will be able to work this out. Prayers for Chucks mom

Tammi congratulations on your personal milestone Sounds like you & your mom had a wonderful weekend together

Theresa I hope Abi is feeling better Look forward to seeing Cassidys prom dress!

Jen I hope you all had a great time, look forward to seeing your pictures when you return. My brother leaves Wednesday, wish I were going again myself lol

I heard from Chanon last night, they will be going to the Grand Canyon today!

 

[Pooh67_68]

Bernadette nice t-shirts.

 

[Pooh67_68]

Terry very nice kitchen.