Today was my brother-in-law's funeral. I am so sad. He was only 35 years old and died unexpectly a week ago. He had served in Iraq and we were so relieved he came home safely. They had a military funeral for him. I've never been to anything so sad. All the soldiers there and the 21 gun salute and gave the flag to his widow. To make things worse, another brother died young, at age 20. There were three brothers. Now it is just my husband. I feel so badly for my MIL. I can think of nothing worse then to have to bury 2 or your 3 children. My heart is just breaking for her and DH and DSIL. Please keep us in your prayers. I know people are only trying to help, I just got home from the store and someone I know said it was his time. That was just so hard to hear. How can it be a 35 year old's time? Seemed he had just started on life.................