Gotcha! I just know being a step-mom myself, it's easy to step on the other parent's toes. I have to always be aware of my boundaries.
It’s been a while, but we always gave teachers a gift card to Barnes & Noble to get books (either for the classroom or for themselves, their choice).
I assume this isn't the first year they are in pre-school or daycare? I'd ask their father what he's done in the past and stay the same or slightly higher. You wouldn't want to do less.
I wouldn't inflict anything I'd try to make on the teachers, unless it was a baked good and I don't want to go down that path, the kids can't even bring food from home to school. A thoughtful note is a great idea. Those are the little things I'm not up on yet.
What do/did you do for your kids' teachers? I asked FB and got so many ideas (I'm NOT pinteresty) my head is spinning. Trying to see if I can take those thoughts and any ya'll might have and come up with a quorum. I already asked the school and they sweetly said anything was appreciated. I was thinking $25 Target giftcards? Some of my friends suggested amounts I thought were pretty crazy like $100 per teacher.
If it helps, the kids attend a private Montessori daycare.
My mother and I ran a center for 14 years. I guess us and our staff were different. We didn't "prefer" any one gift and we didn't throw away, donate or give away any of it.
I still have every thing the kids gave me over the years. Several really special Christmas ornaments or decoration. My absolute favorites were something the child made. My youngest bunch of previous students are in college now so its really special to put an ornament on the tree and think of the kid in the PTA program who gave it to me.
I did receive gift cards (the ones we like the most we usually for a nice restaurant where we would all meet up during the holidays).
Keep in mind a private center is a little different than a public school. Teachers don't usually have to buy their own supplies so those kinds of gc may not be something they particularly need.
Also, we loved the homemade candy. I still have one of the former mom's that will give me a tin of candy at church!!
I do $20 gift cards to either Target or Starbucks. I have a lot of teacher friends and they have told me pretty much unanimously, that teachers want gift cards. They don't need coffee mugs, ornaments, or any other hand crafted creations LOL
Thank you for posting this. We’ve had so many lovely thank you notes for the thoughtful gifts we’ve given. I don’t mind just doing gift cards for teacher appreciation, but I like to give something personal for Christmas to go with the gift card.