Dating Question

[disneydude91]

Here's my situation. I want to ask a girl out on a date but i don't have a car or any other means of transportation. The only way I could pick her up and take her on a date is to have my mom drive me.

So, here is what I am asking. If I took you out on a date would that be weird that my mom drove us around? I'm kinda looking for mostly girl's answers here. But if there are any guys that have had past experience with this then I would be glad to here from you! Thanks!

 

[2HOT2touch]

well, I dont really think so. if you go to the mall or something where your mom can drop you off and you can go to dinner and a movie or something and then either have your mom pick you up or her mom pick you up. i dont really think it matters, probably what she will be thinking about when you ask her out or even on the date is, "wow, i can't believe he asked me on a date." or, "Omg! I can't beleive im going on a date/ on a date with him!" so no, i wouldn't really mind, because i know how hard it is to get transportation around to places.

 

[MuNkY]

Is her house close enough to walk to?

 

[VolleyballQt07]

in my opinion, i think it would be a little akward(sp?) but it wouldnt be a big deal as long as your mom isnt goofy and tries to embarrass(sp?) you or your date. i would think that as long as she promises not to do anything crazy, it would be a pleasant ride to where your going.

 

[*Starfire*]

I am actually going on a date tommorow. I think it's cute when a guy isnt embarassed(sp?) to introduce his girl to his mom or dad.

 

[Princess Ash]

My very first date with any guy was with my family. We were going to a hockey game and we had an extra ticket so I asked my guy. We sat a little away from my fam and then we all went to Friendly's but we sat at a different table. It's not weird at all. If you don't have a mode of transportation, she will TOTALLY understand. Especially if she is psyched to go out with you. Besides, don't ask her by saying "Do you want to go *insert date here* with me, as long as you don't mind my parents driving?"

Worry first about getting her to agree about going on the date. Worry about the logistics later. It's perfectly normal to have your parents drive you somewhere then pick you up later.

 

[HSMndLKfan92]

My parents usually like to have dinner with the guy I like ; as a means of approval.

I don't think it's a problem. Just make sure your mom doesn't embarrass you

 

[Pirana]

in my opinion, i think it would be a little akward(sp?) but it wouldnt be a big deal as long as your mom isnt goofy and tries to embarrass(sp?) you or your date. i would think that as long as she promises not to do anything crazy, it would be a pleasant ride to where your going.

I agree!

 

[WORLDwarQUIFFLE]

Is it a first date kind of thing?
Maybe first you should just go on a walk or something like that.
Get to know each other without your parents being involved.

But, if there's something you both want to do, I don't think it's a big deal having adults drive you.

 

[Sparx]

If her house is close enough to walk to, I'd walk. But thats just me.

I wouldn't mind if someone's mom drove us around. It wouldn't bother me at all.

BTW, how old are both of you?

 

[AngienLuLu]

I think it would be ok if you two sat in the back seat and your mom drove up front. I would first ask the girl if she was ok with that because she might not feel comfortable meeting your mom on a first date. Hope everything goes ok and have a great time!!

~LuLu

 

[PrincessKally]

I guess it depends, if it was a guy i'd known or even hung out with before i wouldnt mind cuz were at that age were we need our parents to drive us everywhere cuz everyone is still just getting their lisecene[sp?] [ then theres that 1 peron rule anyways..blahh] I mean if its a girl you don't know well and if it would be weird to sit in complete silence in the car that would be awkard....if your okay talking around your mom to your friends or girls and there was conversation and not awkard silence to the resturant or wherever then it wouldnt be so bad....unless you at the age where you just dont have a car and everyone can drive and you have your liccense[sp?] then maybe it would be awkard.....hmmmm good luck!

 

[hidmickey:myantidrug]

in my opinion, i think it would be a little akward(sp?) but it wouldnt be a big deal as long as your mom isnt goofy and tries to embarrass(sp?) you or your date. i would think that as long as she promises not to do anything crazy, it would be a pleasant ride to where your going.

See, I'd be exactly the opposite of this. I would like it better if the mother was embarrassing. Not only does it break awkward silences, but it shows family dynamic and it loosens you up with light-hearted fun. I would much prefer it this way.

But no, having you mom tote you around would certainly not be a problem.

 

[Pocahontas_6]

I think it would be cool if your mom is bringing you and i agree just kind of remind her not to emberass you on the ride theree!

 

[GirlWithSpunk]

I think it would be ok, just as long the parents aren't embarrasing you!

 

[iluvaladdin]

hey im new here but i thought i could help u out lol cause im a girl haha
well i don't think its weird. the girl has to understand that u can't drive yet but just make sure ur mom dosen't follow u like everywhere cause that could get pretty annoying haha but other than that i think she should be fine with it lol
good luck with that!