Just fyi when we made our request, I ONLY spoke of the "needs, reactions, consequences, etc." I'm accustomed to requesting accommodations for my family member (school, extracurriculars, camps, etc) and understand that it's about limitations and accommodations, and not the diagnosis. In fact I prefer not to share diagnoses unless absolutely necessary.Just my theory… but possibly those getting asked more questions are focusing the request and some answers on the diagnosis more so than the needs, reactions, consequences, etc.
For our request, I gave the same explanation for the 1st and 2nd levels of review, and answered their follow up questions. With the 3rd level of review I said the same thing, and added the multiple diagnoses because it was with the neuropsychologist and they would know specifically what I was talking about.
This is only our experience though... I just wanted you to know that at least in our case, we weren't focused on the diagnoses at all.