Sorry you had so much stress. It's hard to address all the challenges we have at the parks currently with the staffing challenges that are in place and ability to do the parks pre-pandemic simply isn't there.We were there today until about 2:30 when we had to leave for the airport. It was a whole lot better today than yesterday. We didn’t want to leave today. We were having fun. Yesterday was miserable. We were there Wed-Sat. Wednesday and Saturday were the worst. We hated the park reservations, not having fast pass, and the virtual queques. If there had been fast pass it might not have been so miserable yesterday- we have been on a crowded day before and it felt nothing like yesterday. We really wanted to ride ROTR a 2nd time after finally getting it for the first time on Friday. I got it today but too late of a boarding group- called called 30 minutes after we had to leave. At least we got to ride it once because for a while it wasn’t looking like we would. The park reservations really stink because you can see the lines are shorter in the other park and can’t hop- can’t switch your park day to try for ROTR the next morning when you completely fail on a day - and for years we would start at DL and hop over to CA around 11:00 or 12:00 for lunch and we can’t do that which was a source of irritation and stress. Park reservations may work okay at WDW where hopping isn’t easy anyway and the parks are spread out- but we have always felt like DL/CA were more like one big park. . We had some fun moments this trip- but there was also a lot of stress and disappointment for the first time ever on a DL trip. I felt like from 6:50 am to 12:01- I was s ball of stress every day. I hated having to disappoint DD 4 out of 5 mornings telling her I failed to get a boarding group for either ride. We have gone to DL 11 of the last 12 years (no 2020) and this was the first time we have ever had a stress filled trip. I was taking to a CM who asked how our trip was when we were leaving and she said she is hearing the exact same thing from a lot of people.
Reservations hamper and no hopping until 1PM putting crimp in prior year hopping style? yes. Imagine if those guardrails weren't there -- the wait times and crowding would be that much more stressful than we all currently witness.
No BGs? Remember those 3+ hour wait times for rides? With the coming of LL, those who are willing to pay a little more won't be 'losing out' of the BG lottery.
Will this get better when Disney is able to fully hire and train out its crew? Yes. It will take some time to get there.