So many people beat me to so many things!
I would say the culture of going into work when you're sick
There's a lot to unpack for this one. We have a "work yourself to death" culture. It's some sort of weakness to take a day off, and in some cases you get punished for it (think promotions, etc). Lets talk about vacation for a second. I haven't taken a vacation day in 2 years because of that same culture, and because there's too much work to do. If I take a day off, I have to work 3x as hard for the next week to make up for it. I'm also looked down on by management for taking a day. If someone is gone for more than a day, they're expected to be accessible. If they have your home/cell number they'll call you, if they don't, they'll try and contact you through social media.
Now imagine what it's like if you're sick and not at 100% to start with. You almost have to go to work just to keep from falling even farther behind. I haven't had a day off in years where I didn't at the very least get one message asking for something. We don't have backups for positions, and so there's no one to cover when someone is out. That is a problem with the employer, but it seems to be very common in my area.
All that aside, people often don't have enough sick days, if they even get any. And those days are expected to cover themselves as well as their kids (because you can't leave a sick kid home alone) and not everyone has the ability/option to work from home.
Tipping culture. Just pay people a living wage and don't count on customers to make up for a ridiculously low hourly rate.
So much this. It's uncomfortable for everyone, and customers are expected to supplement employee wages because employers are cheap. I'd rather see them outlaw tipping altogether, even if that means raising prices. And in no way am I saying I don't tip... But to be fair, I also don't eat out often.
Of course, I'm assuming we're referring to the restaurant industry in the OP's comment. I also don't like tipping culture around other things... Also, how do we determine who's worthy of a tip and who isn't? I mean, you're expected to tip your server, your newspaper delivery person (those still exist, right?
) but not, say, the cashier at Walmart. I don't get it. Why are we expected to tip for some services and not others, and why are we expected to tip certain people even if they do a terrible job?
So many selfies! I don't get it. Why do people want so many pictures of themselves?
And you go to any tourist attraction and you can't get a picture of the actual building/landscape, etc because everyone is posing in front of it.
I don't actually have a problem with this. It's very common for people to want a picture of themselves in front of something, especially when travelling. As someone who owns a "real" camera (not a cell phone) I'm VERY uncomfortable handing a stranger a $1500 piece of equipment that they don't know how to use, expect them to take a decent photo with it and not mishandle/break something or run away with it (yes, someone tried that once). A selfie is a way to do that in a better/safter way. I do think people should be respectful enough to take turns, so that everyone can get the photo they want. And no, I don't get the random selfies for no reason other than vanity... but to each their own
Someone else made a comment about everyone taking their own crappy photos or videos of parades and fireworks and things. Yes, I'm aware I could go find better photos online. I don't WANT someone else's. The fun for me IS taking these, and you (the collective you, not a specific person) doesn't have to understand that. I don't let it ruin the experience though. Sometimes I let my pictures be crappy because I'm watching whatever it is over the camera, and I'm just looking down enough to make sure it's pointed in the right direction. And I'm okay with it turning out terribly in that instance... but I still want MY photos/video. We haul them out now and then (yes, even the terrible ones) and still thoroughly enjoy them.
If ir were only people/places that had a history of repetitively doing things like that who were getting canceled, I'd agree. But it's not. It seems that lately it only takes one incident of bad behavior before people get "canceled", not a history of bad behavior. And it doesn't even have to be a recent incident. Things from 20 years ago get dug up and used againt people now, even tho that was a single incident. Thats the kind of thing I'm talking about.
This particular post I read earlier actually had to do with Disney. And those who say they are no longer going bc of changes being made. Regardless of if you agree with the changes or not, you can choose to go or not. You don't get to "cancel" Disney because you don't agree with something and make it so no one can go to disney. (this is just an example) You choose not to go and let others make the same decision for themselves. The money gained/lost will be what pushes Disney to go one way or the other. The same for musicians, actors or any other business. If you find the music, show, product offensive, don't partake in it. If enough people stop partaking the artist/business will change. But that doesn't mean that everyone has to or will find that thing offensive just because you do. That doesn't mean said product has to be eliminated from the market just because some don't like it.
I'm of the same mindset. "Cancel culture" isn't about saying "hey this thing is racist/sexist/terrible for whatever reason and we should collectively work to improve this". Cancel culture is more about "I don't like this thing and nobody else is allowed to either".
If we're talking about a person and their bad behavior, the attitude seems to be that anything that person has done needs to disappear. Take the Will Smith slap for example. Bad behavior? Absolutely. Does that mean that everything he's ever done in his life is now tainted? Is he now a bad actor? Should we ban his movies? For the most part, I don't believe people are all good or all bad (I can think of exceptions) and I don't think the bad things someone does cancels out the good. I also think making things "disappear" means that people aren't actually learning anything. There are people whose movies I can't watch because of certain things I know about them in the real world and I can't see past it. That's MY problem. I don't think their movies should be banned because I have a hang-up.
The kind of cancel culture I see most often these days is more of the "I don't like this, so it needs to go away". Someone will say something is offensive, and call for it to be banned. Just because one person finds it offensive doesn't mean everyone does, and this pervasive attitude of "I'm right and everyone MUST agree with me" is a bit frightening. I'm up for a good discussion, but sometimes you have to agree to disagree and accept that the difference of opinion isn't going to go away. And people need to learn that just because you don't agree with someone, that doesn't make them a bad person (obviously there are cases where they actually are, but you know what I'm getting at) and it doesn't mean you have to hate each other.
This is absolutely correct. The media is the way it is because WE want it that way. As much as everybody complains about it, they get the views and clicks. Have you ever noticed how many people say that they never eat at McDonald's? Like, seriously, nobody must eat at McDonald's - and yet....
Okay, I just had to reply to this. I had McDonald's for breakfast
I was hungry, I was already out, it was convenient to my location, and it was the cheapest thing in that area.
Seriously though, 5 bucks for an egg mcmuffin? It wasn't even that good, but it kept me from starving