Culture Shock

Wait - you have big gaps around toilet doors? Why?!?!

And it's not polite to say 'toilet'? I must remember that one...
 
Wait - you have big gaps around toilet doors? Why?!?!

No idea. There is no point to having gaps. They're not huge gaps but if someone wanted to stand on the other side and stare at you, they could see through those gaps. Obviously everyone usually minds their own business and lets you have your privacy.

And it's not polite to say 'toilet'? I must remember that one...

It's fine to say toilet. Maybe it's a generational thing? I've always said toilet. I've never been told that it's not a polite thing to say.
 
I like this entry

"I had this worst experience when i was in hotel. While cooking the fire alarm started ringing. I was in panic what to do. But later realized and cleared the air around the fire alarm with blanket.
So whenever the alarm rings then its time to clar the smoke around the alarm"

Did you notice that there were two stories of cooking in hotel rooms? :scared1: That's a scary thought.
 
Wait - you have big gaps around toilet doors? Why?!?!

And it's not polite to say 'toilet'? I must remember that one...

I don't know why they're there, but they're not huge (at least not in my opinion). Some definitely are bigger than others, but they range from

__ to ________.


I say toilet, though in the south it's more common to hear "commode." I think what people mean, though, is we usually don't say toilet for bathroom or restroom. It's fine to say toilet for the actual porcelain fixture. :) Toilet used in the place of bathroom just sounds kind of...crass, I suppose, to us. And I know it's not in other places, so I'm not passing judgement - it's just one of those things.
 

as an American Iagree with those who do not like the gaps in the stall doors...ESPECIALLY the floor gaps..when the little angel next door feels like poking his head under while his mom takes care of business :rolleyes: Why is that kids crawling on a filthy bathroom floor anyway?Same for fitting rooms. I really like the stalls in the airports which are floor to almost ceiling, tight door/frame...also keeps your purse/ carryon safer. I wish all restrooms were like that.
 
as an American Iagree with those who do not like the gaps in the stall doors...ESPECIALLY the floor gaps..when the little angel next door feels like poking his head under while his mom takes care of business :rolleyes: Why is that kids crawling on a filthy bathroom floor anyway?Same for fitting rooms. I really like the stalls in the airports which are floor to almost ceiling, tight door/frame...also keeps your purse/ carryon safer. I wish all restrooms were like that.

I was wondering about that the other day, I hate using public restroom as is, but at work it's unavoidable sometimes...I can only think that it makes cleaning easier, but besides that, I don't see any good reason for it.
 
Wait - you have big gaps around toilet doors? Why?!?!

Oh Elaine, from one modest Brit to another, you aint seen nothing til youve seen these toilets :scared1:

Just a few hints ... dont let your knickers fall down to your ankles!!! .... unless of course you dont mind the whole of WDW seeing your bloomers :rotfl:

You will become VERY aware of the position of your feet!! I try to keep mine facing forward but with knees spread to keep my shorts above the bottom door gap!!

Yoo will find ingenious ways to wipe yourself without looking to the outside world as if youre wiping yourself :rolleyes1

Kids DO poke their heads under the gaps. Be prepared at all times to stamp on little heads :eek: (that is a JOKE BTW ;))

Oh, and while you wait in line to use the toilet ...... keep your eyes on the floor down at your feet at all times, unless you actually WANT an eyeful :rotfl2:

Or better still ............ Hold it in til you get back to the safety of your hotel room!!!! :laughing:
 
Oh Elaine, from one modest Brit to another, you aint seen nothing til youve seen these toilets :scared1:

Just a few hints ... dont let your knickers fall down to your ankles!!! .... unless of course you dont mind the whole of WDW seeing your bloomers :rotfl:

You will become VERY aware of the position of your feet!! I try to keep mine facing forward but with knees spread to keep my shorts above the bottom door gap!!

Yoo will find ingenious ways to wipe yourself without looking to the outside world as if youre wiping yourself :rolleyes1

Kids DO poke their heads under the gaps. Be prepared at all times to stamp on little heads :eek: (that is a JOKE BTW ;))

Oh, and while you wait in line to use the toilet ...... keep your eyes on the floor down at your feet at all times, unless you actually WANT an eyeful :rotfl2:

Or better still ............ Hold it in til you get back to the safety of your hotel room!!!! :laughing:

I hadn't even considered the space at the bottom of the doors and sides of the stalls. In the UK, it goes all the way down? I don't think I'd like that - I think I'd feel claustrophobic.

I've never in my life had a kid look under my stall. Strange!
 
M-Tinkerbelle, when we first arrived in Madrid, it was my task to learn the route from our home in Aravaca to Torrejon AFB. I kept seeing signs for "Cambio de Sentido" and remember thinking, "Wow, there are lots of ways to get to Cambio de Sentido!" I was in Spain for probably six months before that was covered in my Spanish class and I learned that it meant roughly "change of mind" or "turn around, you're going the wrong way, doofus!"

I love Spain, especially Barcelona.

Queen Colleen
 
In Germany you generally have to pay to use a public bathroom (1 Euro or so). That I got used to but I never got used to the male attendants working in the ladies' room.
 
I say toilet, though in the south it's more common to hear "commode." I think what people mean, though, is we usually don't say toilet for bathroom or restroom. It's fine to say toilet for the actual porcelain fixture. :) Toilet used in the place of bathroom just sounds kind of...crass, I suppose, to us. And I know it's not in other places, so I'm not passing judgement - it's just one of those things.

I was the one who was told that it was rude, and that was in 1968 in the Deep South, so it isn't considered truly rude now -- it is more considered Too Much Information in terms of announcing that is where you are going.

Saying that you "need to use the restroom" is a bit like saying that you need to "spend a penny"; a polite little euphemism. In the US, women tend to prefer euphemisms that make it sound like we are visiting that room for some other purpose, such as powdering our noses or washing our hands. ;) (At my office, the usual expression is "run down the hall" because the toilet is located at the end of the hallway.)

The part that is considered somewhat impolite is making it EXACTLY clear what you are planning to do once you get there, and that is where mentioning the toilet comes in. As the poster I quoted mentioned, "toilet" here means the actual porcelain fixture, not the room that it is located in, so when you come out and say, "use the toilet" you are giving them a fairly specific mind picture. (Now if you said that you dropped your phone in the toilet, everyone in the room would be giving out advice about finding rice so that you could try to save it.)

Children tend not so much to say where they are going so much as they like to say what they need to do, because that gets an adult's attention more quickly, but they use little euphemisms as well, most notably saying that "I have to GO" with very strong emphasis on GO. If you hear a child say this in an anguished tone of voice, he isn't just bored, LOL. "Go potty" is one of those childhood euphemisms, as is "go tinkle", and both of them are sometimes used by adult women who are trying to make a coy little joke. It will always draw laughter from bystanders if a child goes so far as to use more graphic terms in an audible tone of voice, such as "Mom! -- I gotta PEE!"

Oh, and BTW, that other four-letter P word with an "ed" tacked on the end does not mean drunk here -- it means angry. If you use the related expression in terms of teasing someone, expect blank stares; the expression "taking the **** out of" someone is essentially unknown here. (I'm dancing around on this one because the word is on the DIS blocked list, I think. In any case I don't want to get points while I find out.)
 
I was the one who was told that it was rude, and that was in 1968 in the Deep South, so it isn't considered truly rude now -- it is more considered Too Much Information in terms of announcing that is where you are going.

Saying that you "need to use the restroom" is a bit like saying that you need to "spend a penny"; a polite little euphemism. In the US, women tend to prefer euphemisms that make it sound like we are visiting that room for some other purpose, such as powdering our noses or washing our hands. ;) (At my office, the usual expression is "run down the hall" because the toilet is located at the end of the hallway.)

The part that is considered somewhat impolite is making it EXACTLY clear what you are planning to do once you get there, and that is where mentioning the toilet comes in. As the poster I quoted mentioned, "toilet" here means the actual porcelain fixture, not the room that it is located in, so when you come out and say, "use the toilet" you are giving them a fairly specific mind picture. (Now if you said that you dropped your phone in the toilet, everyone in the room would be giving out advice about finding rice so that you could try to save it.)

Children tend not so much to say where they are going so much as they like to say what they need to do, because that gets an adult's attention more quickly, but they use little euphemisms as well, most notably saying that "I have to GO" with very strong emphasis on GO. If you hear a child say this in an anguished tone of voice, he isn't just bored, LOL. "Go potty" is one of those childhood euphemisms, as is "go tinkle", and both of them are sometimes used by adult women who are trying to make a coy little joke. It will always draw laughter from bystanders if a child goes so far as to use more graphic terms in an audible tone of voice, such as "Mom! -- I gotta PEE!"

Oh, and BTW, that other four-letter P word with an "ed" tacked on the end does not mean drunk here -- it means angry. If you use the related expression in terms of teasing someone, expect blank stares; the expression "taking the **** out of" someone is essentially unknown here. (I'm dancing around on this one because the word is on the DIS blocked list, I think. In any case I don't want to get points while I find out.)

Actually, oddly enough, I don't think it is. Let's see: pissed piss
 
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bluenubian (f)
Re: What Did You First Experience In The US?
« #71 on: June 12, 2006, 04:54 PM »

i cant remember having a bad experience, but one thing i still do to this day is say "sorry" all the time, thats how i was raised, if someone hits their leg, i ll say sorry, well now i say sorry all the time to my co workers and friends, they jus look at me crazy and say "oh thats ok, u didnt do it", now i jus say "i know i cant help saying sorry"

diddy4 (m)
Re: What Did You First Experience In The US?
« #72 on: June 12, 2006, 04:57 PM »

i tot i was d only one with that problem. i say it eertime and one time i said it and my friend was like if the cops were there and heard me say that, i would have been in a very big mess. now what i do is, if some one hurts theirselves, i will just say. awww, that is going to hurt, don't worry u will be aiight. It is long and i hate it but what can i do. don't want to say sorry and sorry myself in jail.

sometimes i prefer naija way. a simple sorry will do.
 
Coffeeandfags your post had me rolling up! :rotfl: How to wee and wipe in america...

It is interesting that it's the image coming from the word 'toilet' that isn't liked. I guess we're similar here sometimes - lots of people will say 'loo' instead, though really it means the same thing.
I find it interesting because I always thought it was supposed to be the Brits that were more prudish. Now, my child when needing to GO would say - 'Mummy I need a weewee!' Or worse :haha:


I hadn't even considered the space at the bottom of the doors and sides of the stalls. In the UK, it goes all the way down? I don't think I'd like that - I think I'd feel claustrophobic.

I've never in my life had a kid look under my stall. Strange!

Toilets vary. A lot (especially cheaper run ones) have gaps underneath. It makes sense for cleaning I guess. It's fairly well known for one girl to need to pass some tissue underneath to the next if one cubicle has run out ;)
Gaps at the top, not so much, I think - or at least they're high enough for me not to think about it. Toilets are generally well lit and spacious enough for them not to feel claustrophobic. Then again, having had babies with me for the past few years, I tend to make use of the disable toilets so there's plenty of space - they are actually a room to themselves.
 
A friend of mine was in England (I think??) and was shocked by a man asked what time she wanted to be "knocked up" in the morning.

He meant "woken up"
(we mean made pregnant here)
 
Now see we'd say 'knocked up' for pregnant too, but I'd understand what he meant in that context.
Do you also say 'bun in the oven'?
 
I'm really enjoying this thread! :thumbsup2

Right now I'm the one making all the cultural mistakes and having the culture shock. Ex. Having random men ask for our daughters hand in marriage on an almost dily basis.

I get a kick out of talking to West African about the US and hearing there opinions of what they think it is like. Ex. When in the fall they asked what the weather was like in the US. We told them and they proceeded to talk about how they would die in those temperatures (ones we would consider nice, not hot and not cold)!
 
I work with quite a few folks from West Africa; it's always kind of amusing to see them the first fall that they are here ... wearing three shirts, a jacket, a hat and gloves when it's 55 degrees out.
 
I don't know why they're there, but they're not huge (at least not in my opinion). Some definitely are bigger than others, but they range from

__ to ________.


I say toilet, though in the south it's more common to hear "commode." I think what people mean, though, is we usually don't say toilet for bathroom or restroom. It's fine to say toilet for the actual porcelain fixture. :) Toilet used in the place of bathroom just sounds kind of...crass, I suppose, to us. And I know it's not in other places, so I'm not passing judgement - it's just one of those things.

I've seen some gaps around here that are more like this __________________. or even this _________________________. Why do they even put a door up?


I call it the "Wow, I'll go somewhere else to use the bathroom" type of bathroom
 


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