crushing hard

[stinkerbell2009]

i am crushing sooo hard on a guy. what should i do??? hes popular and i'm...well... not. do i have a chance??

 

[Darth Sidious]

with my experiences no u do not have a chance. thats just my experiences with popular and not so popular people. it may be different where u r.

 

[Tiinkerbelle]

Are you friends with this boy? If your friends you have a better chance. If not become friends first, that is a great start. If he see's what a great person you are =) then I'm sure you have a chance.

 

[goofy123]

with my experiences no u do not have a chance.

You never know, many schools are different with the "popular" factor. Some schools have many clics, some schools dont have any clics.

Just try talking to him more and just let nature take it's course.

 

[Darth Sidious]

You never know, many schools are different with the "popular" factor. Some schools have many clics, some schools dont have any clics.

thats y i said in my experience cause my school had a clic and i was at the lower end.

 

[pugslee]

i am crushing sooo hard on a guy. what should i do??? hes popular and i'm...well... not. do i have a chance??

This happened to me last year in fifth grade [i'm young ] The guy i liked was popular and I wasn't. According to a magazine I have, it said that guys that hang out in a group need their friends approval with the girl he wants to go out with, and the guy I liked hung out in a group. So this guy may like you, but his friends don't he needs their approval.

Oh gosh, I feel like Oprah now

 

[Lil_Tink]

I dunno...Depends on the school....Like at my school there isnt just 1 popular group..

There's the popular group who has the skaters

The ones who get the local guys

And us who get...Hmmmm :/


But dont let him being popular stop you....

Of course the boy I like is a grade younger so thats alot easier

 

[IrishTink]

Just become friends wit him first, gain his trust and that sorta stuff. Like the guy I like I'm friends wit him. If he is like mean or snobby to u like most popular guys, then just forget about him. Talk to him and get to know him. Let him know u like him but don't be too obvious. OMG! I'm starting to sound like Dr.Phil or Oprah! AHHH...

 

[*fluropinklolliepop*]

it just depends if the so call popular ppl are even liked like at my school the popular ppl only hav there small groups of friends cus no one else likes them cause they are mean anyway everyone has a chance just be confident!

 

[!!PonyBoy!!]

Yeah I so agree
Try and become friends first so he sees that you are a great person and then once he gets to know you better things could happen

 

[polysisterchick]

i am crushing sooo hard on a guy. what should i do??? hes popular and i'm...well... not. do i have a chance??

Same here except he isn't popular--like me-- and is older. AND if I were to show you a pic of him most of the people hear would say he isn't cute but I think he's hott But yea just try to get to know him and be friends with him and maybe one day yall might get together.

 

[Babyjustrun]

hhmm you might have a chane. just watch how he acts around you. he could be :
a) staring at you
b) when you're talking to him, he actually pays attention to you

y'know .. signs like that. i don't think cliques really have anything to do with. i have a crush on a guy who i've liked for ages, and i'm sure he likes me to. the problem is that he has a girlfriend at the moment. so i keep my trap shut.

get to know him better, he's not going to go out with you if you just ask him out and he barely knows that you have a brother that's five years older.

 

[elphie]

I'm in the exact same position u r- I have a crush on one of the most popular guys in school, and I'm just in the middle

 

[Lil_Tink]

Good luck..

Tomorrow..hopefully I will ask the guy I like out...Hopefully is the key word

 

[Sparx]

Good luck..

Tomorrow..hopefully I will ask the guy I like out...Hopefully is the key word

is this the one that wanted you to hang out wiht him, but you had to babysit?

 

[Azure]

Just remember sometimes things arn't always what they are played out to be. In my case I was crushing really hard on this guy but it turns out that he isn't there anymore. I think we moved. Just be careful you may end up getting hurt.

 

[rnrlover]

Are you friends with this boy? If your friends you have a better chance. If not become friends first, that is a great start. If he see's what a great person you are =) then I'm sure you have a chance.

go for it!
Laura