OK.. Disney GROOM here, and I'm actually the one with more time, so I am doing some more research. 
DF and I just booked our DCL wedding ceremony for 9/10/11 on Castaway Cay! We're SUPER excited about it. It will be on the Dream, which will still have that "new ship smell" and we are planning on having maybe 60 people there. Yes we know that's a lot for a cruise wedding, but big family on her side!
SO I have a few requests from you ladies (seems to be the overwhelming majority here).
1) Any tips or suggestions for the bride on the cruise? What did you regret doing or not doing? What would you have done different? Or didn't know you COULD do?
2) I've seen a lot of your photographs here, and they are all amazing! I hear a lot of people talking about being a Disney Bride gets you access to the park early to take pictures etc.. How does one get that accomplished? Obviously it has to be a Disney photo package. Where do I arrange this? Any recommendations? and Cost?
3) Does anyone know if Disney will pick you up at the port and whisk you back to one of the hotels, or are you on your own?
Thanks for your answers in advance!

DF and I just booked our DCL wedding ceremony for 9/10/11 on Castaway Cay! We're SUPER excited about it. It will be on the Dream, which will still have that "new ship smell" and we are planning on having maybe 60 people there. Yes we know that's a lot for a cruise wedding, but big family on her side!
SO I have a few requests from you ladies (seems to be the overwhelming majority here).
1) Any tips or suggestions for the bride on the cruise? What did you regret doing or not doing? What would you have done different? Or didn't know you COULD do?
2) I've seen a lot of your photographs here, and they are all amazing! I hear a lot of people talking about being a Disney Bride gets you access to the park early to take pictures etc.. How does one get that accomplished? Obviously it has to be a Disney photo package. Where do I arrange this? Any recommendations? and Cost?
3) Does anyone know if Disney will pick you up at the port and whisk you back to one of the hotels, or are you on your own?
Thanks for your answers in advance!