I have Crohn's- and I was diagnosed at about the same time, DisneyFreak. Just before Christmas- what a gift!

Too bad I can't return it!
I managed with a modified diet, Remicade, Imuran and Pentasa for awhile but eventually had to have an ileocecectomy last June to remove a stricture. I was hospitalized for about a week and it took some time to recover, but it happened. The upside to it was that I was able to stop the Remicade infusions and now I just take Imuran and Pentasa.
I need to get back to the modified diet again. I avoid milk protein and red meat right now as well as fried/high fat foods, although I definitely break that rule every once in awhile. I've learned what and how long I can "push it" before my body pushes back. If I have something important coming up: a trip or occasion, I just watch what I eat for a week beforehand and that works for me. I mean, I have abdominal pain daily- sometimes it interferes with my day, sometimes it doesn't. I also have gastroparesis, (my stomach doesn't empty out fast enough) and that gives me more pain than the Crohn's! Totally annoying feeling stuffed all the time! But they gave me Reglan to help that out and it works.
As I re-read this I look like a hot mess!

But when it's just a part of your life, it assimilates and you work with it. It could be worse- if I keep that in perspective, it doesn't get on top of me. It definitely wears me down at times and I break and have a good cry....but I have an 8 year old with serious health issues so I can't take too much time to feel bad for myself, ya know?
I hope just knowing your not alone is a consolation- I'm here and always willing to talk! You can always PM me if you'd like...
