The dining plan is a sticky subject on these boards. But....let's not blame each other for the different uses of the plan--Disney was unclear and its workers encouraged people's creative uses of the plan.
To me, what does it matter if a child orders an adult's meal at a CS? At buffets, it doesn't matter what the child gets....there is not a Food Guard standing at the children's section of the buffet to keep them from venturing to the "adult" section.
What is really ridiculous is that my 10 year old is charged as an adult! Now, will all of you frown on my treating my parent from his account and just paying out of pocket for him to get what he would really eat off the children's menu? My parent is not the "adult" in my hotel room; she has her own room.
Just continue to charge children and adults separately on the plan; then, allow kids to get whatever they want off any menu as long as they get an entree, dessert, etc.
Food is pretty cheap to provide, so Disney is unnecessarily complicating its system for little return on its investment ( and creating some negative feelings). Others may say that they owe this action to their stockholders b/c they are losing money; I AM a stockholder, and good will value is just as important as the bottom line.
So, you may say, if you don't like it, don't get the Dining Plan...well, we are not getting it since my son turned 10...probably won't even consider it until he's MUCH older, if at all.
Even if the Dining Plan is "free," it will cost a lot of us in losing AP discounts,
AAA discounts, code rates, etc. Plus, if you have to buy a package (invest in a one-day ticket that you don't need for everyone), it adds to the cost of the "free" plan. People must figure carefully each way to go with the Dining Plan--Disney's changing rules, midstream, doesn't help.