mamacatnv
That be a Mum Y'all - a Texas Mum
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When I see this type of discussion I think it is important to note that the option to walk away should be discussed as just that, an option. It should not apply to people who are dealing with job losses etc, it should apply to those who CAN make their house payments but have OPTED not to.
I live in the heart of one of the hardest hit housing markets in the country. I have a forclosure across the street, next door, down the street and directly behind me. I also have several neighbors living the high life because they have chosen to stop paying the house payment and just wait for the bank to foreclose. A few of them are going on 1-2 years and have not even had a notice of default filed on them meanwhile they are traveling and spending like crazy.
I understand the arguments on both sides, to keep or to walk away and honestly I think it really is a personal decision, I see it around me every single day. I have friends doing it and I have friends who are toughing it out.
We currently are toughing it out. We bought our home for approx. $185K before the housing boom and the following bust. At the top our neighborhood was at approx $375K and today, is roughly at $90-100K IF one could even find a buyer. The "experts" are suggesting that IF the market EVER recovers it will take 20+ years. That is a long time to make a house payment on an if.
The other thing this swing has done for those of us chosing to stay in our houses is that our once $250-350K neighborhood is now a $75-100K neighborhood and that dramatically changes the demographics of my schools, my neighbors etc. It might sound a bit snobby or elitiest but most of us buy in the best neighborhood we can afford and to watch that neighborhood decline is very hard. Meanwhile, the folks that have decided to walk away, are renting in nicer areas and are planning to re-buy in a couple of years in the neighborhoods that were once out of reach. Meanwhile.....I'm doing my "duty" and paying my mortgage. Sure my credit is intact but is it the best overall financial decision for us? I honestly am not sure of the answer.
I live in the heart of one of the hardest hit housing markets in the country. I have a forclosure across the street, next door, down the street and directly behind me. I also have several neighbors living the high life because they have chosen to stop paying the house payment and just wait for the bank to foreclose. A few of them are going on 1-2 years and have not even had a notice of default filed on them meanwhile they are traveling and spending like crazy.
I understand the arguments on both sides, to keep or to walk away and honestly I think it really is a personal decision, I see it around me every single day. I have friends doing it and I have friends who are toughing it out.
We currently are toughing it out. We bought our home for approx. $185K before the housing boom and the following bust. At the top our neighborhood was at approx $375K and today, is roughly at $90-100K IF one could even find a buyer. The "experts" are suggesting that IF the market EVER recovers it will take 20+ years. That is a long time to make a house payment on an if.
The other thing this swing has done for those of us chosing to stay in our houses is that our once $250-350K neighborhood is now a $75-100K neighborhood and that dramatically changes the demographics of my schools, my neighbors etc. It might sound a bit snobby or elitiest but most of us buy in the best neighborhood we can afford and to watch that neighborhood decline is very hard. Meanwhile, the folks that have decided to walk away, are renting in nicer areas and are planning to re-buy in a couple of years in the neighborhoods that were once out of reach. Meanwhile.....I'm doing my "duty" and paying my mortgage. Sure my credit is intact but is it the best overall financial decision for us? I honestly am not sure of the answer.

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