Nancyg56
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A lot of people are walking away from their mortgages and not feeling bad about it. Take a listen to act 2 of last week's episode of This American Life http://www.thisamericanlife.org/radio-archives/episode/418/toxie . It's about a guy in your situation.
Basically the thought process is: if you want to continue living there, keep paying your mortgage. If you want to take the money and run, then default. There is nothing illegal about it, and you're not being a bum. It's the banks that are the bums for all that shady stuff. Your credit score is only really important if you plan on trying to borrow money. The score will repair itself over time. Although some employers/landlords will check credit scores too. However, don't make a decision based on this thread. Talk to an expert and do some research.
I guess I have an issue with this thought process. I understand that there are times when mortgage lenders are not scrupulous but I have to ask what happened to personal responsibility? Both of my sons purchased homes when the value was higher adn both are upside down in their mortgages. Neither is happy about that but both are making payments which they had locked into according to their means. They made purchasing decisions based on their own ability to make their commitment. I understand that lenders offered more than buyers could afford when all of their living expenses were considered but whose responsibility was that? If a buyer chose to overlook that I do not want to bear that financial burden for them.
I realize that owning a home that is not worth the original cost is stressful but I also wonder how many folks are using that as an excuse to avoid making payments on their property. A credit score is important but IMO, my word is worth more than even that. Every time someone walks out on a mortgage that affects their neighbors and their community.
The down side ---- I am living farther away from my dad, my brother and his family.
! He mailed the keys in, and I completely understand why. It's not something I think is a great idea, but I also understand there are some no-win situations.
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