I did one for DH last year. I emailed about 5-6 photos of our past trips, he and my dd together, etc. I put a saying on it about living life to the fullest and not sweating the small stuff (It was some Disney quote that I'm blanking on night now). We were celebrating that he was alive after his cardiologist discovered a dilated aorta root at 6.8 cm. and he had emergency open heart surgery. It was what John Ritter died from. My DH was lucky he survived it.
What about sending pics of your wedding? And maybe a current one of the two of you?
The personalized menu is not big - it's a smaller paper version of the regular menu. If I can find pic I took of it, I'll try and post it.