considering taking 85 year old dmil..

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So, dh and I were talking last night-and thinking/planning(!) A trip with dmil.
She's never been to wdw-and is very keen-especially since watching saving Mr banks and hearing foodie stories:thumbsup2

Whilst I have various health issues-dmil would be our main concern.

We would definitely stay onsite and require disabled access room.
I like dvc style properties-so we would need at least a one bed villa.
Does anyone have any feedback regarding different resorts?

I've posted on accommodation also-but thought I'd ask here too-
If the property is accessible-is it a shower or a tub-not both which would be suitable for dmil?

When booking adrs,can you request a specific area or table-ie NOT the middle of the restaurant?

Unsure at this point,whether we would hire a wheelchair/scooter,or bring from home? (We're in the UK) any suggestions?

My other initial thought was when would be the best time to visit?
Our local airport flies direct April-October,or would be around 4 hours plus an overnight airport hotel stay-
so local airport-although more expensive-definitely seems preferable.

I think the main issue is probably the flight?
Possibly upgrade-we've only ever flown economy-so unsure what's the specific upgrade benefit.

Thanks in advance for any advice.:)
 
I can't answer all of your concerns, but I'll share some thoughts.

As far as ADRs are concerned there is no way to get a certain designated area of a restaurant when making those advanced reservations, but you certainly could ask the host once you get there. You may have to wait longer for a table, but I think they would accommodate you if they have something available.

There are roll in showers in some handicap rooms; so, just make a request for one. They may get all booked; so, I wouldn't wait too long to make your reservations.

In April you have here what is called Spring vacation from school. It could be more crowded at that time. May might be ideal. It wouldn't be too cold or hot yet, hopefully. You have the Flower and Garden show at that time in Epcot. This is a nice event.
September and October have what's called a Food and Wine Festival which is nice, too. I find September to be on the warmer side and you could have the potential for more rain.

The average walking at a Disney park is 6 miles each and every day. You need to answer whether one in your party can handle pushing a wheelchair for that length of distance. Another issue is whether your 85 year old MIL can do a scooter. It's not that hard, but it's not that easy if you are not experienced at it. My MIL at 83 managed with a scooter, but she had some rough moments and we had to help at times with it. For example, we used bus transportation and we had to get the scooter on and off for her.

Also, keep in mind that you should somewhat follow a schedule that is similar back home for your MIL. If she needs a nap mid day, you will have to take a break. If she goes to bed early you need to be done with the park early. Understand what she can handle as far as rides are concerned, too. Some rides are not meant for people who have back problems or a heart condition, for example. I would pace the day with alternating rides, shows, eats, parades and fireworks. Use fastpass plus at the parks.

Allow for a recovery day when you arrive in Disney World for jet lag. Don't push hard on that first day.
 
Thanks for your advice.

About the scooter versus wheelchair:my dh would happily push his mom.
However,I feel she may like the idea of "driving" a scooter-but she maybe slightly scary behind the wheel!:rotfl2:

One of my own health problems is fatigue-so we go to the parks for rd,and leave after an early lunch. Although,it's often dh who snoozes-not me:lmao:
 
N.B. that the last time I flew in and out of Heathrow, nobody in my party needed a wheelchair, so I’m not sure what the accommodations for mobility-related disabilities there are these days. So, everything below is related to traveling in U.S. airports. (However, everyone at Heathrow was SO helpful and accommodating in general that I can’t imagine it being harder instead of easier.)

We rented from one of Disney’s approved outside rental companies, and had them drop the equipment off at the hotel. We didn’t need the wheelchair/ECV to get to the airport. When we made our flight reservations, we marked that we needed wheelchair assistance AT the airport, and a skycap was waiting for us with a wheelchair. At the larger hub airports, they had a big golf cart carrying all the disabled passengers from the flight instead of individual skycaps with wheelchairs. If someone wasn’t waiting for us, we’d ask a flight attendant or whatever airport employee we could find. Sometimes we’d have to wait a little while longer than other passengers, but we never missed a connection.

When we got to the resort, the wheelchair/ECV was waiting for us at the bell desk. We used Disney transportation the rest of the time, and it was great.

Regarding wheelchair vs. ECV/scooter, I’ll just share a story for your consideration. Two trips ago, I fell and broke my foot while checking in to my resort. A trip to the emergency room later, I was back in the room, and the person in my party who was using an ECV called the company she used and had them deliver a manual wheelchair for me at my request. I didn’t think of myself as a weakling, or particularly heavy, and other relatively young and healthy people in the party volunteered to take turns pushing.

There turned out to be a LOT more hills, ramps, and bumpy cobbletones in EPCOT than we had ever imagined, and by the end of one day we were absolutely beat, and our arms felt like jelly. We called the company and they had an ECV delivered the next morning. So, I guess there’s a double takeaway: It’s possible a manual wheelchair may be more work than it seems, but if it is, that doesn’t mean the vacation’s ruined.
 

So, dh and I were talking last night-and thinking/planning(!) A trip with dmil.
She's never been to wdw-and is very keen-especially since watching saving Mr banks and hearing foodie stories:thumbsup2

Whilst I have various health issues-dmil would be our main concern.

We would definitely stay onsite and require disabled access room.
I like dvc style properties-so we would need at least a one bed villa.
Does anyone have any feedback regarding different resorts?
It depends partly on your budget and partly on what you are looking for.

Bay Lake Tower and Grand Floridian both have DVC villas close to Magic Kingdom. There is a walking path from Bay Lake Tower to MK. It is not possible to walk from Grand Floridian. Both are on the monorail directly to MK and with a transfer, to Epcot. Buses travel to other locations.
Wilderness Lodge also has DVC villas and is near MK, but not on the monorail. You need to take a boat to MK and a bus to other parks. Wilderness Lodge Villas is relatively small, so may be all rented out, especially if you need an accessible one.

Beach Club Villas and Boardwalk villas are also DVC, located near Epcot. There is a walking path to Epcot and the Studios, but there is also boat transportation. For other parks, you would use buses. The buses are shared between the Epcot area resorts and can be busy, so you may not always get on the first bus.
Beach Club Villas is relatively small, so may be all rented out, especially if you need an accessible one.

Animal Kingdom has DVC villas at Jambo House and at Kidani Village. Jambo House puts you at the AK Lodge building. Kidani Village has its own amenities, but is about 1/4 to 1/2 mile walk to the AK Lodge. They are close to AK, but other locations are farther away. The only transportation is by bus.
Jambo House Villa DVC was regular rooms converted to DVC. Kidani was built as DVC and has a second full bathroom in the one bedroom units.

All of those villas are at a hotel and are multi-story hotel type buildings.
Old Key West and Saratogo Springs are groups of separate buildings. You can park in lots near the building, walk between the rooms and the main building with amenities or take internal buses.
Saratoga has large multi-story buildings, arranged in groups with a large number of villas in each building. If you have a car, you will park in large lots shared by several buildings.
OKW buildings are much smaller and each building has its own lot, so you can literally park right outside of your room.
I've posted on accommodation also-but thought I'd ask here too-
If the property is accessible-is it a shower or a tub-not both which would be suitable for dmil?
You said you are renting a one bedroom, so this information applies only to one bedroom (or the Master Bedroom of 2 bedroom or larger).
All one bedroom villas have a shower and a separate whirlpool tub.
The ‘regular’ showers have a small step (6 inches or less) to step over to get into the shower. The regular showers at Kidani have a built in seat inside of the shower.
All of the villas also have accessible roll in showers available. These have no step to get in and someone using a wheelchair could roll right up to the shower. The roll in showers have a seat built in, grab bars and also a hand held shower head.
You would need to make a specific reservation for a villa with a roll in shower. OKW and Saratoga are the largest number of rooms, so have the most accessible rooms. The others, especially Beach Club and Wilderness have less rooms, so have less accessible rooms.
When booking adrs,can you request a specific area or table-ie NOT the middle of the restaurant?
As was already mentioned, that is something you request when checking in at the restaurant. The CMs there are assigning tables and know what is available at the time, so explain to them what you are looking for. You may have a longer wait for your desired area.
Unsure at this point,whether we would hire a wheelchair/scooter,or bring from home? (We're in the UK) any suggestions?
It sounds like you do have a wheelchair at home, but don’t have a scooter. I would not rent a scooter to bring it to the US.
Renting in the US, if there are any mechanical issues, the rental company will deal with them for you. If you bring one from the UK, you could be stuck with a malfunctioning scooter with no options.

Follow the link in my signature or look near the top of this board for the disABILITIES FAQs thread. Post 2 of that thread has information about renting wheelchairs and scooters (also called ECVs), including where to rent with phone numbers and weblinks.
An ECV gives more independence, but person driving it needs to be constantly alert and ready to stop. People walk out in front of ECVs and wheelchairs all the time without warning. The ECV driver has to be alert to this, watching and ready to stop suddenly without warning.
This can be difficult for some older people whose vision, hearing or ability to react may not be as keen as they used to be. Being alert all the time can get to be very mentally tiring, so she may not be physically tired, but may be worn out with remaining alert.
All this is especially difficult for older people who don’t drive. For a first timer, I personally would recommend a wheelchair. That way, she can look around and see things instead of just concentrating on driving.

Also, all attractions are wheelchair accessible (with the exception of a few where guests need to be ambulatory - Peter Pan, Swiss Family Robinson Treehouse, Tomorrowland Transit Authority and Tom Sawyer’s Island).
Some queues are not ECV accessible,; for those, she would have to walk or could switch to a wheelchair at the attraction (tell the CM at the entrance that she needs to borrow a wheelchair for the queue).
Some rides have a wheelchair accessible ride car; if she was in a wheelchair, she would not have to transfer.
My other initial thought was when would be the best time to visit?
Our local airport flies direct April-October,or would be around 4 hours plus an overnight airport hotel stay-
so local airport-although more expensive-definitely seems preferable.
I agree with the other posters about time to visit.
May is a more quiet time in the US because schools are still in session. Later September and October are quieter for the same reason.

Hurricane season is generally June 1st thru November 30th. Hurricanes can occur any time, but are more likely during that time. You could be vey lucky and not hit any hurricanes - we travel to WDW twice a year, once in Spring and once in fall and have never been here for a hurricane. Do expect rain showers almost every afternoon in the Fall. It usually rains in the late afternoon nearly every day and then typically clears up after a short period of rain shower.
I think the main issue is probably the flight?
Possibly upgrade-we've only ever flown economy-so unsure what's the specific upgrade benefit.

Thanks in advance for any advice.:)
Check with your airline about what the upgrades include. In the US, it is typically larger seats and more leg room, but may also include better food (or food period, since many US flights provide only snacks, coffee and soft drinks).
 
Thanks for your advice.

About the scooter versus wheelchair:my dh would happily push his mom.
However,I feel she may like the idea of "driving" a scooter-but she maybe slightly scary behind the wheel!:rotfl2:


One of my own health problems is fatigue-so we go to the parks for rd,and leave after an early lunch. Although,it's often dh who snoozes-not me:lmao:
If you think she might be slightly scary, a scoter may not be the right choice.

If you decide to rent one for her, she should practice at the resort before venturing out in public. She need to be able to control the speed going forward and reverse, turn in both directions going forward and reverse and stop.
All scooter have throttle for driving that controls the speed and also have a lever or button that dictates the top speed. The fastest setting is usually Rabbit, and within that setting, you can go slow or very fast. The slower setting is usually labeled Turtle and the top speed on that setting is much slower than the top speed on Rabbit.
That is where I see most people getting into trouble - they have the setting on Rabbit when they are really only capable of controlling it in Turtle or they are on Rabbit when they need to be going slowly, like getting on the bus.

If you rent for her, someone else in your party can drive it onto the bus and park it for her.

Also, if you rent, I would recommend renting from a company that will actually deliver it to you and demonstrate the scooter rather than one that will just drop it off at Bell Services for you to pick up. The instruction would be helpful.
There are people who posted they rented a scooter and after the first day, decided it just was not going to work out for them. They were able to call the rental company, get the scooter picked up and trade it for a manual wheelchair. So, that is an option too.

You could also bring a wheelchair to the park and rent an ECV at the park. The wheelchair rental place (at least in the past) has held personal wheelchairs for people who were renting an ECV. That would avoid having to take one on the bus and she could use an ECV for parks like Epcot with a lot of walking and the wheelchair for others.
 
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Check with your airline about what the upgrades include. In the US, it is typically larger seats and more leg room, but may also include better food (or food period, since many US flights provide only snacks, coffee and soft drinks).

International flights always serve a meal, and the OP is flying to MCO from the UK, so will have a food service.

OP, you will certainly be allowed to preboard flying with an 85 year old with health issues. I believe by upgrade, you are asking if it is worth it to purchase business class or first class seats. Buying economy tickets and then upgrading using cash is hard these days (depending on the airline) because so many frequent flyers get these seats using their miles or upgrade instruments. Also, you usually can't do it until the last minute, three seats may not be available and they probably won't be together. If you want to fly a higher class, you will probably have to buy the tickets. The amenities depend on your airline, but usually are larger seats with more legroom, free alcoholic drinks, better food, possibly lie flat seats, more free checked bags, and early boarding. This will probably be your MIL's only trip to WDW, so if you can afford it, it would be nice to go for business or first class seats.

I would probably chose an airline which offers a nonstop flight (not direct, a direct flight has one or more stops) if available. You can contact your airline before your flight to arrange for a wheelchair to get to the gate and to meet you at the gate at MCO; contact information will be on the airline's website.
 
Thank you so much everyone for all your kind assistance.

Our first trip with our children was supposed to be our one and only-
Clearly,walt knew better!

However,it would absolutely be dmil s only trip-so would want/need it to be as magical and straightforward as possible.

We would have a hire car-and think from replies we'll be hiring a good old-fashioned wheelchair.
I will read further info-thanks again.:thumbsup2

And yes,it would absolutely be a nonstop flight-and a meagre meal and a couple of drinks are generally provided-only dh usually eats the airline "food".

Dh has just said,he's ever so grateful to the wonderful people at the dis too-
And his mum is like a big kid (she's really,really lovely and funny-and coped amazingly since dfil passed) so thanks again folks.:cheer2:
 
Business class for transatlantic flights is fairly different from business class for domestic flights.

On overseas flights, the food will be better, the higher the class of seat regardless of airline. My business class experience involved a meal that had soup, salad, a main, dessert (ice cream sundaes), and possibly an appetizer. My only real issue was that it seemed like the main lacked salt, but that was it. Also, business class tends to have pretty much free-flowing, fairly good wine (obviously not for the kids). The loo is usually closer to business class as well and be reserved just for business class travelers. You also won't have issues with people reclining into your lap or sticking their knees into your back. They do tend to only have 2 seats to each section of a row. I don't know how old your kids are, but that may be something to consider.

What airline you're considering flying will make some difference as far as perks in business class go. For example, I got upgraded (randomly) on a flight from Detroit to Heathrow and it turned out business class had seats that would recline enough to be a flat "bed". Not the most comfortable bed, but the only overnight transatlantic flight I've taken where I managed any sleep at all. My parents regularly fly British Air (Boston -> Heathrow) and use miles to upgrade to business class, but I don't think those seats recline the way Delta's do. I'm not sure what business class is like on Virgin, but I think their first class does have the fully reclining seats (not from personal experience, but I've known someone who has upgraded for that reason). Delta also gave me a free "sleep" kit with a mask, socks, mini toothbrush/toothpaste, chapstick, and other little things that could be used to "freshen up" or for comfort.

I'd plan to stay in Orlando for several days longer than you plan to actually visit the parks. That way not only can you have rest days when you first arrive, but you can have rest days in the middle as well. It can be fun just to putter around your resort or do something else. If the kids get board, either you or your DH can take them somewhere or, if they're old enough, they could go to the parks on their own. Since it sounds like this is a trip that is "once in a lifetime" because of the opportunity to bring your DMIL and have those family memories, it's worth taking the extra time if you can afford it. My favourite time of year to be at WDW has definitely been late October. The drawback is that MNSSHP is happening so Magic Kingdom closes earlier (unless you also buy tickets to the party), but weather-wise, it's comfortable (the only other time of year I've been to WDW is winter because I'm far too heat sensitive to attempt the summer). It's still warm-to-hot then (think 25-30C as the typical highs), but it's not like the summer. It's also still warm enough for swimming and rides that get you wet. I also definitely enjoy the Food & Wine Festival. If your DMIL is a foodie, it's something she'd definitely enjoy.
 
Business class for transatlantic flights is fairly different from business class for domestic flights.

On overseas flights, the food will be better, the higher the class of seat regardless of airline. My business class experience involved a meal that had soup, salad, a main, dessert (ice cream sundaes), and possibly an appetizer. My only real issue was that it seemed like the main lacked salt, but that was it. Also, business class tends to have pretty much free-flowing, fairly good wine (obviously not for the kids). The loo is usually closer to business class as well and be reserved just for business class travelers. You also won't have issues with people reclining into your lap or sticking their knees into your back. They do tend to only have 2 seats to each section of a row. I don't know how old your kids are, but that may be something to consider.

What airline you're considering flying will make some difference as far as perks in business class go. For example, I got upgraded (randomly) on a flight from Detroit to Heathrow and it turned out business class had seats that would recline enough to be a flat "bed". Not the most comfortable bed, but the only overnight transatlantic flight I've taken where I managed any sleep at all. My parents regularly fly British Air (Boston -> Heathrow) and use miles to upgrade to business class, but I don't think those seats recline the way Delta's do. I'm not sure what business class is like on Virgin, but I think their first class does have the fully reclining seats (not from personal experience, but I've known someone who has upgraded for that reason). Delta also gave me a free "sleep" kit with a mask, socks, mini toothbrush/toothpaste, chapstick, and other little things that could be used to "freshen up" or for comfort.

I'd plan to stay in Orlando for several days longer than you plan to actually visit the parks. That way not only can you have rest days when you first arrive, but you can have rest days in the middle as well. It can be fun just to putter around your resort or do something else. If the kids get board, either you or your DH can take them somewhere or, if they're old enough, they could go to the parks on their own. Since it sounds like this is a trip that is "once in a lifetime" because of the opportunity to bring your DMIL and have those family memories, it's worth taking the extra time if you can afford it. My favourite time of year to be at WDW has definitely been late October. The drawback is that MNSSHP is happening so Magic Kingdom closes earlier (unless you also buy tickets to the party), but weather-wise, it's comfortable (the only other time of year I've been to WDW is winter because I'm far too heat sensitive to attempt the summer). It's still warm-to-hot then (think 25-30C as the typical highs), but it's not like the summer. It's also still warm enough for swimming and rides that get you wet. I also definitely enjoy the Food & Wine Festival. If your DMIL is a foodie, it's something she'd definitely enjoy.

Thanks for your info.:thumbsup2

With reference to your last comment-my dmil adores food.
I thought dh was a foodie-but dmil takes it to a whole new level.
And kudos to her,for wanting to try new experiences in her 80's-she's truly awesome.
We have older children-and we're going this August for the 12th time.
Probably the last time-well,we've said that before::yes::
But this is a swop trip-leave "kids" behind and take one big newbie, slightly older kid:drive:
 
Sorry to bother you guys again;

Just wondering about the events in epcot-
Do they have an impact on crowds-or are they manageable?
(I imagine rd would be ok-but early evening?)

Do the flower & garden dates vary?
What about the food & wine fun? :)
 
Sorry to bother you guys again;

Just wondering about the events in epcot-
Do they have an impact on crowds-or are they manageable?
(I imagine rd would be ok-but early evening?)

Do the flower & garden dates vary?
What about the food & wine fun? :)
The events do impact crowds. We have found that weekends are busier - probably because there are not only tourists, but a lot of locals. Since many of the local people are off on the weekend, they tend to come then.

I don’t have any figures to back this up, but my family’s observation is that the Food and Wine Festival seems to be busier than the Flower and Garden Festival.
Both are busier on the first week and the last week (especially those weekends).
One other thing that impacts the crowds is which group is playing for the concerts. Flower and Garden has Flower Power Concerts and Food and Wine has Eat to the Beat.
Some of the groups are very popular and attract more crowds than others.

THis year Flower and Garden Festival began March 5, 2014 and will end May 18, 2014.
Past dates were:
March 6 2013 to May 19, 2013
March 7 through May 20, 2012

So, not exactly the same dates, but similar.

The dates I have seen for Food and Wine this year are September 19-November 10, 2014.

Past dates were:
September 27 - November 11, 2013
September 28 to November 11, 2012
 
To explain the procedure from an English point of view, where would you be flying from? We use Gatwick with has direct flights to MCO with both Virgin and BA. Note that we call nonstop flights 'direct'. I can't understand how you can call a flight which has changes in it 'direct' - 'direct' means from A to B without detours etc! Anyway ... I can ony give you my experience with Virgin, but it should help.

When I rang VA at some point before we actually flew out, I booked special assistance and this involves a little buggy from the departure lounge to the gate on the UK side and they then meet you off the plane when you land, take you through a special assistance desk at immigration (bypassing the queue) and then right through on the monorail to the exits if you wish. I said we could manage from the monorail as I didn't want to lose up to an hour by having to put our cases back on the second belt for collection later on.

On the return journey, a guy with a wheelchair came to meet us at check-in/bag drop and took us right through to the gate. I didn't actually want to straight to the gate with 3 hours to go, but what can you do! Again, we were sort of fast-passed at security. He would have come back to take me onto the plane, but it was only one ramp and I knew I could manage that.

When we landed at Gatwick we had to make our own way up one floor (but there was a lift right by the gate) and we met the little buggy there. That buggy took us and another couple down 3 floors going round and round down the ramp, into a lift(!) and then into a cordoned off area in immigration, where a passport officer came to us so we didn't have to get out of the buggy, and then through to the carousels where they retrieved our bags from the PE belt and then I got a luggage trolley and DD and I made our way outside to wait for OH to collect us.

Totally painless, BUT they ask you to hang about on the plane and let all the other passengers off first, which I thought was a pain and totally unfair. However, I guess it means the other passengers aren't hampered with loads of wheelchairs ahead of them. At Gatwick, we saw that immigration was completely empty - everyone had already gone through by the time we got there, and our bags were the last ones left on the PE carousel.

Oh yes, they label up all the bags with a blue wheelchair label and a PE label so your bags don't go in with all the economy luggage so they come off separately onto a different belt to be retrieved more easily by the porters who do all that for you. NB, at the US side the helpers expect a tip. They do not in the UK.

The only upgrades available on UK flights are from economy to premium economy (which is the 'PE' I've referred to above) or, if you're on a 747, to Upper Class - but let's not go there as these seats are something like £2,000 each!! lol If you can get a good deal with PE it's worth upgrading (costs from £200 per person back and a bit more going out (because of the higher airport duty tax)). For that you get an enhanced menu (meh), nice leather seats which are a few inches wider, and more space between you and the seat in front. You also get 2 x 23kg hold luggage EACH! Perfect if you know you're doing a lot of shopping. I like to upgrade coming back using my airmiles: last year it cost the same to fly back PE using 3,250 airmiles each as it would to just fly the listed price going both ways economy. Unfortunately, not all tickets are upgradeable (this year I did a package through Disney and I couldn't use miles plus money on that, although there was a chance we could have upgraded at the airport - but they seem to have a set £250 PP price for that.

Another alternative is to do Seat+ which is buying a spare seat next to you so you have more room; it's about £60 extra. This isn't available on all flights, though. Its best use is if you have a baby and don't want to have them on your lap the whole journey (it's a lot cheaper than buying them a seat, I understand), or if there are only two of you, or if you're of the larger persuasion and would like a bit of elbow/expansion room!

Finally, there's the Extra Legroom Seats which cost about £25 per person each way, but you get a further 3" of legroom. We nearly always fly ELR these days - it's amazing how much extra space 3" seems to give you". These are booked in advance over the phone (payable in advance), but do tend to go quite quickly so again, if you want these seats don't hang about! The only downside is that you can't select your own ELR seats and have to wait until on-line check-in the night before when you'll see which seats have been allocated to you.

HTH
 
Thank you, toffeewoffy.
that is a very good write-up
 
A few years back we took MIL who was 84 at the time...she had cpf and also a diabetic on insulin...we decided to have a wheelchair waiting for her at the resort and it was one we pushed...we didnt think she would be comfortable with a motorized one with the crowds.

we had been to Disney many times..so being with her and sitting out some activities was ok with us..We also had our son and daughter in law, our daughter and her two kiddos.(her husband is Disney challenged)...and we had the best time ever...She was able to do more then she thought she was able to do..
We had photos of her with the characters ...photos of her at restaurants with characters, and everywhere else...memories always for us..

I wish my own Mother had been able to go too..

HOpe that you have a great time
 
Thanks for your advice. About the scooter versus wheelchair:my dh would happily push his mom. However,I feel she may like the idea of "driving" a scooter-but she maybe slightly scary behind the wheel!:rotfl2: One of my own health problems is fatigue-so we go to the parks for rd,and leave after an early lunch. Although,it's often dh who snoozes-not me:lmao:

I've been taking my 86yo mother to WDW every summer for the past several years. We usually stay 2-3 nights, but we only visit one park because that's all she can really handle, even in a wheelchair. We have used regular wheelchairs every year except the year we went to Animal Kingdom. We decided, because of the terrain, that we would try renting a scooter for her. HUGE mistake! She did go to Walmart a couple of times before we went to Disney to get some scooter practice, but she was still constantly running into us, and many other unhappy park guests the entire time. I would suggest that if you are going to let your MIL use a scooter, make sure she has used one many times before. My mom uses a wheeled walker when she is at home. We bought an inexpensive transfer wheelchair to take on our Disney trips. It has been wonderful. We also burn a few extra calories pushing her around the park!
 
A few years back we took MIL who was 84 at the time...she had cpf and also a diabetic on insulin...we decided to have a wheelchair waiting for her at the resort and it was one we pushed...we didnt think she would be comfortable with a motorized one with the crowds.

we had been to Disney many times..so being with her and sitting out some activities was ok with us..We also had our son and daughter in law, our daughter and her two kiddos.(her husband is Disney challenged)...and we had the best time ever...She was able to do more then she thought she was able to do..
We had photos of her with the characters ...photos of her at restaurants with characters, and everywhere else...memories always for us..

I wish my own Mother had been able to go too..


HOpe that you have a great time


aw, thanks for this.
memories are indeed precious-sounds wonderful-thats exactly what we envisage.:)
 
I've been taking my 86yo mother to WDW every summer for the past several years. We usually stay 2-3 nights, but we only visit one park because that's all she can really handle, even in a wheelchair. We have used regular wheelchairs every year except the year we went to Animal Kingdom. We decided, because of the terrain, that we would try renting a scooter for her. HUGE mistake! She did go to Walmart a couple of times before we went to Disney to get some scooter practice, but she was still constantly running into us, and many other unhappy park guests the entire time. I would suggest that if you are going to let your MIL use a scooter, make sure she has used one many times before. My mom uses a wheeled walker when she is at home. We bought an inexpensive transfer wheelchair to take on our Disney trips. It has been wonderful. We also burn a few extra calories pushing her around the park!


we 100% decided on a standard wheelchair versus a scooter-
i think its the only absolute decision we have made so far!:rotfl:
 






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