Considering a cruise for the first time with teen boys. Need advice.

As far as a Disney cruise for active teen boys--I'd also suggest the Western Caribbean on the Fantasy. (Western has more 'active' port adventures.) The Fantasy/Dream ships have a 9 hole mini golf course, Midship Detective Agency (interactive game to play on the ship), and the Aquaduck water coaster. Will your oldest still be 17? Once the kids turn 18, they've aged out of the clubs--although there is an informal 18-20 society that meets once a day around the ship. If your kids will be 14/17 on the cruise--they'll both be able to go to the Teen Vibe club. There's also a sports deck if your boys like basketball.

And really, teen boys--all you can eat on a cruise ship? And that includes free room service (just make sure to tip the delivery person.)
 
Thank you so much for the feedback so far, Dis friends! You've given me much to consider. Life has been so busy this week, we haven't had a chance to have a family meeting to talk through the trip options yet. We'll have a chance to chat this weekend.

At the time of the cruise (March, 2019) my boys will be 17 & 14, so it sounds like they will both be able to do the teen room, which is good. The cruise in the mix is a 4 night cruise...it's what fits both in our spring break window and in our budget. While I'm sure the 7 day cruise would be more awesome, the ones I peeked at don't fall at the right week for our break and are too pricey for us. I will, however, take a look at other cruise lines to see if the activities might appeal to our guys more. You have all reinforced the idea that my boys can be independent on the boat, which makes a Disney cruise very attractive. Our guys like to go off and do their own thing.

Keep the feedback coming! I appreciate any info Dis folks have. I'll let you know how the family meeting goes this weekend.
 
My teen (girls) did not love the club. I think much depends on personality. My younger dd liked it because she liked beating the boys at video games. Depending on how much free range your kids have at home, especially the 17 yo, the ship "freedom" may not be all that big of a deal. Personally, I think my kids, ages 14-19 now, would prefer another line that had rock climbing, longer pool hours (and less "people soup") than DCL, etc.

I'm going to throw another idea out. Adventure tours. Because it's a slow day at work. These are all companies that come highly recommended on the "Other Options" thread in the Adventure by Disney board here. I just pulled March 2019 departures.

https://www.austinadventures.com/search/tours

http://www.tauck.com/search.aspx?theme=Family+Vacation+Travel&departureDate=March+2019

https://www.rei.com/adventures/search/month

https://familyadventures.com/find-a-trip/#filter=.2019-03&sort=original-order

https://www.gadventures.com/travel-styles/family/teenage-departures/
 

For your family I think a 4 day Dream Cruise would be a waste of money. Nassau is not very exciting and I don’t know how much truly active stuff there is at Castaway Cay. I guess they can snorkel out a ways but there’s just stuff places in the water by Disney, there’s no reef.

I’d check out Royal’s Oasis class and see if any western Caribbeans meet your budget/dates. As others pointed out, Cozumel and Jamaica offer excursions that sound more like your kids’ speed. And those ships offer much more adventurous activities.
 
Dis friends, I really need some advice. We are WDW vets, and did our first DL trip in August of 2018 (and had a terrific time!). For all of our trips, we've stayed on property, as we really enjoy the Disney bubble. We are looking to do something a little different for spring break this year, so I consulted a local TA for some advice. Here's what I told her about my family (myself, DH, DS 17, and DS 14) and what we're looking for in a spring break trip the last week of March, 2019:

1. We love Disney. We've had amazing experiences at both WDW and DL. We love the resorts, the food, and the rides. My teen boys are active and go from one ride to the next; when we take a midday break, we swim in the resort pools. They like going off on their own in the parks and doing their own thing for a time without mom and dad around, and we feel comfortable giving them the freedom to do this. They are responsible and they stick together, and they know the parks well. We are a family that doesn't do characters, parades, or shows...we'd rather eat yummy food and hit the attractions hard.
2. We want to go someplace new for spring break, 2019...so not WDW or DL.
3. As the gal who pays for the trip, I like the all inclusive feel of a WDW package, so I want an all inclusive experience.
4. Because we have never traveled outside the US with our boys, we are open to doing this. We know that our boys will not be able to be nearly as independent as they are at Disney parks, and that's OK.
5. Our boys are active, so we have no interest in going and plopping on a beach for a week. We need to do stuff...swimming, snorkeling, hiking, zip lining, etc. and we also need good food.

Our TA took this info and proposed three options: a Grand Canyon trip (not all inclusive and not warm at the end of March, but lots of action with hiking, stunning views, Jeep tours, etc.), a trip to Mexico in an all inclusive resort (warm weather and lots of activities, but I've heard stories about safety issues with tourists in Mexico), or a Disney cruise on the Dream.

I'll be honest, a cruise was not even in my thought process. We've never taken a cruise. While I've heard amazing things about Disney cruises, I've often assumed that the main draw for them are characters and shows. My boys do not dig shows, and merely tolerate characters during the few character meals we've done through the years at WDW. However, the TA indicated a Disney cruise would give me the all inclusive experience I'm after, great food, warm weather, activities, and she assured me the cruise ship itself (like the Disney parks) would be safe for my boys to navigate solo for short periods of time (definitely not once we disembark, obviously). She said when we get to cruise stops, there are lots of activities we can take part in, which sound fun. However, I'm worried my boys will be bored on the ship itself.

So, I'm turning to Dis folks who are Disney cruise vets. All of these options are roughly the same price and fit our budget, so they are all equal from the financial perspective. I need to know if I should heavily consider a cruise for our family trip, or if I should eliminate at cruise from the mix. Right now, both my hubby and boys are cruise skeptical, I think because they have Disney princesses and shows in their heads?

So, give it to me straight. Would a Disney cruise fit our teen boy family needs? Sell me on it, or give the straight scoop about why this probably wouldn't be a good choice for us.

Thank you, in advance, Dis peeps for all of your advice and information.

I have two teen boys who once loved WDW and DL but are now addicted to Disney cruising. It is a wonderful vacation and the entire family is happy. You will need to create some rules for them. Here are ours:
1. You must eat dinner with us. (unless we want to go to Palo or Remy (adult only)
2. You must eat breakfast with us (prevents them from staying up all night. )
3. You may not go into anyone else's cabin and no one may come into ours
4. You must go on any excursion we want you to attend.
5. You must dress up and take the professional photos before dinner.
6. You must follow the rules of the ship.
7. You must respond to any text we send you.

If they do not follow these rules; they lose the freedom we allow them to spend time in the clubs. We have found they are more than compliant because they enjoy the experience so much.
 
A wider variety of food? I can’t even imagine. What else could they get that’s not offered on DCL?

On Carnival (especially on bigger ship) there is usually a sushi/japanese restaurant, a Barbecue counter, a pizza place, a deli, a "chinese food" counter (or Jiji Asian Kitchen) an italian restaurant (free at lunch) & a Mexican food counter on top of the dining room, the buffet & the burger counter.

And for a fee, there is Chef's Table that is a special experience comparable to Remy but includes a visit of the galley. Cucina del Capitano that is a bit like Palo... But they also have a Steakhouse and Jiji Asian Kitchen (4 courses meals) available for signature dining.
 
I would do a cruise on Royal Caribbean. One of the oasis class ships. Disney cruises are so expensive I’m sure you can find a 7 night that is cheaper than their 4 night. The pools on dis cruises are awful and if your teens don’t like characters and Disney shows you are missing the main reason Disney. ROYAL has zip line, water shoes, ice skating rink and show, rock climbing wall, flow rider surfing, water slides depending on ship, etc etc etc. sometimes magicians and comedians at night. we love a cruise!!

Grand Canyon is a meh for me. Hiking I guess but it was a one day stop for us.
 
My very active DS begged us for one last Disney cruise before he aged out of the kids clubs. The first was when he was 12, then 15, and 17. He has loved them all. I can't speak more highly of the experience. My only complaint is that like some other posters mentioned, it can be hard to make your kids spend time with you. Setting some rules is important. I completely agree with k3chantal's rules. Ours were about the same.

I would also second some comments about doing a 4 night. It sounds really obvious that 7 nights is better than 4, but it's not just the number of nights. Nassau isn't one of the better ports. But, if that's what you need to do, I would still go. We've done it a few times.

Good luck with the decision.

FYI, we only cruise as a couple now. DS has grown up and aged out. As a young adult without kids clubs, the one cruise with DS wsa such a different experience after having such amazing times in the kids clubs. It was rather heartbreaking to see him have to adjust but we still had a good time.
 
Dis friends, I really need some advice. We are WDW vets, and did our first DL trip in August of 2018 (and had a terrific time!). For all of our trips, we've stayed on property, as we really enjoy the Disney bubble. We are looking to do something a little different for spring break this year, so I consulted a local TA for some advice. Here's what I told her about my family (myself, DH, DS 17, and DS 14) and what we're looking for in a spring break trip the last week of March, 2019:

1. We love Disney. We've had amazing experiences at both WDW and DL. We love the resorts, the food, and the rides. My teen boys are active and go from one ride to the next; when we take a midday break, we swim in the resort pools. They like going off on their own in the parks and doing their own thing for a time without mom and dad around, and we feel comfortable giving them the freedom to do this. They are responsible and they stick together, and they know the parks well. We are a family that doesn't do characters, parades, or shows...we'd rather eat yummy food and hit the attractions hard.
2. We want to go someplace new for spring break, 2019...so not WDW or DL.
3. As the gal who pays for the trip, I like the all inclusive feel of a WDW package, so I want an all inclusive experience.
4. Because we have never traveled outside the US with our boys, we are open to doing this. We know that our boys will not be able to be nearly as independent as they are at Disney parks, and that's OK.
5. Our boys are active, so we have no interest in going and plopping on a beach for a week. We need to do stuff...swimming, snorkeling, hiking, zip lining, etc. and we also need good food.

Our TA took this info and proposed three options: a Grand Canyon trip (not all inclusive and not warm at the end of March, but lots of action with hiking, stunning views, Jeep tours, etc.), a trip to Mexico in an all inclusive resort (warm weather and lots of activities, but I've heard stories about safety issues with tourists in Mexico), or a Disney cruise on the Dream.

I'll be honest, a cruise was not even in my thought process. We've never taken a cruise. While I've heard amazing things about Disney cruises, I've often assumed that the main draw for them are characters and shows. My boys do not dig shows, and merely tolerate characters during the few character meals we've done through the years at WDW. However, the TA indicated a Disney cruise would give me the all inclusive experience I'm after, great food, warm weather, activities, and she assured me the cruise ship itself (like the Disney parks) would be safe for my boys to navigate solo for short periods of time (definitely not once we disembark, obviously). She said when we get to cruise stops, there are lots of activities we can take part in, which sound fun. However, I'm worried my boys will be bored on the ship itself.

So, I'm turning to Dis folks who are Disney cruise vets. All of these options are roughly the same price and fit our budget, so they are all equal from the financial perspective. I need to know if I should heavily consider a cruise for our family trip, or if I should eliminate at cruise from the mix. Right now, both my hubby and boys are cruise skeptical, I think because they have Disney princesses and shows in their heads?

So, give it to me straight. Would a Disney cruise fit our teen boy family needs? Sell me on it, or give the straight scoop about why this probably wouldn't be a good choice for us.

Thank you, in advance, Dis peeps for all of your advice and information.

I have been on the Disney cruise in basically every age group. My favorite cruise was when I was in the teen area ( now that I'm 18 I'm sad I can't be in there) for multiple friends I've had on cruises we were in the teen area and around the ship together all the time. It is definitely a great time for teens on the ship. I have never been in the teen area on the dream but my sister has and it is the best out of all the ships I've heard. I would definitely suggest the disney cruise!
 
I have been on the Disney cruise in basically every age group. My favorite cruise was when I was in the teen area ( now that I'm 18 I'm sad I can't be in there) for multiple friends I've had on cruises we were in the teen area and around the ship together all the time. It is definitely a great time for teens on the ship. I have never been in the teen area on the dream but my sister has and it is the best out of all the ships I've heard. I would definitely suggest the disney cruise!
My 19 year old would concur.Though he had fun as an 18 year old, his best times aboard were his teen years when he could participate in the clubs......
 

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