I think that, as the mother of his children, he should have told her he was getting married. If nothing else, to be prepared in case she and the kids are out in public and get approached by the media...Pople don't use common sense...then to say " I don't talk about my personal life" when you had 2 VERY public weddings ( they were on In Style's Wedding Special)...It just seems like if he is so private(?) and she is so out there...this will not last!